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simpsons/simp048.gif I have only been wrong once and thats because I thought I was wrong but I was wrong I was right!
Petty authoritarians aren’t man enough to challenge the actions of a person face to face; instead they incite a forum of rumour, innuendo and half truths, and impose rude sanctions to discourage those who dare question fairness.
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| Quote: andysilsden "The Bradford thing was a joke. I dont think it would have happened anyway as the odsal pitch is in a poor state at the moment.'"
Pretty poor joke to make on a Cougar fans forum. To suggest such a thing simply robs the cubs of sympathetic support. Your final comment shows that someone must have considered it
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simpsons/simp048.gif I have only been wrong once and thats because I thought I was wrong but I was wrong I was right!
Petty authoritarians aren’t man enough to challenge the actions of a person face to face; instead they incite a forum of rumour, innuendo and half truths, and impose rude sanctions to discourage those who dare question fairness.
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| Quote: View from the full back "Before I start I would like to make it known that I have no axe to grind and I neither love nor hate the Cougars. I am a senior administrator for the Cubs. Yes, there are a few of our committee who have grudges against certain people at Cougar Park but I am not one of them.
Having said that, it won't be long before I am.
Frankly, I and my committee are annoyed at the way this has been handled by Cougar Park.
The issues around the team training and the changing rooms not being available are hogwash. The Cubs offered to kick off at 8.30, or however long after training was convenient and to change elsewhere (the leisure centre being an obvious possibility). Both these offers were dismissed.
Maybe there are issues with the playing surface but if there are why not just say so and why allow Silsden to play on Wednesday night?
Every team in the National Youth League is asked, where facilities permit, to stage one Friday night floodlit game. This game becomes the prestigious game of the week and receives enhanced national press coverage which can only be good for both clubs. The Cougars have known about this game for over five months. The lads and the staff have been looking forward to it and have organised their weekend around it. Several players and staff from both teams have booked time off work to allow them to play and the coaches etc were all ready to go. The referee and linespersons were booked etc etc etc.
With little respect for all parties involved the game has been cancelled at short notice, without a satisfactory explanation as to why. If there is a genuine reason, e.g. they can't afford the electricity, then we should be informed. If not, we will invent our own conspiracy theories.
This comes a week after the Cubs, representing the Cougars, travelled to South Wales, to lose by the last kick of the game to last years champions, which entailed some parents and players leaving their houses at 5.30am on Sunday morning and arriving home after midnight. They represented the team and the town well, unlike their professional counterparts who went down there and had to come back home minus the players who had been arrested.
Respect is a two way street.'"
Some fair points, its a real shame that the relationship between Cubs and Cougars has started off like this. I've always thought that encouraging kids is the most important thing a sports club can do, it may be a cliche but they are the future.
Just out of interest, why did you feel the need to say "unlike their professional counterparts who went down there and had to come back home minus the players who had been arrested". IMHO it adds nothing to your otherwise fair argument and simply makes it appear that you do have an axe to grind after all.
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| ...and piques the interest of us who don't know what you're on about..?!
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| Pardon my ignorance on this but at the q and a recently it was confirmed by Graham Kemp, community director that there was to be an inclusion and rightly so of clubs like West Craven etc.
The meeting was with Martin, not sure if anyone else was involved. My query is do the various cub coaches etc have a nominated person to deal with the club or is it each team do their own thing.
I hope and think the first option would be more productive generally.
As I say its just a question to which I do not know, can someone please clarify.
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| Just to answer a few points but I have said all I want to say and don't want to get into a protracted tit for tat argument on here.
1. I was probably wrong to mention the players who got arrested but the point I was trying to make was the considerable time and effort and professionalism shown by the players, parents and staff of the under 18s team was poorly rewarded. I was accentuating their efforts by comparing them to their Professional counterparts.
2. I won't go into detail about what happened when Cougars went to Wales but they returned with more empty seats than they took. As the Club managed to keep it out of the papers (and to be fair if I had an axe to grind I could quite easily have blabbed) it's old news now.
3. Yes we do have one nominated liaison officer but the correct channels of communication are never followed.
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| Quote: View from the full back "J
1. I was probably wrong to mention the players who got arrested .'"
So why mention it again then ...
What is the point in bringing up an event that happened over two seasons ago ,that has no relevance whatsoever to the topic being discussed....
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| Whilst it appears that this may have been badly handled surely the most important thing in all this is Keighley Cougars RLFC.
The last thing club needs right now is for a game to be called off because a load of kids had a game and wrecked the place.
As for the Cubs, we all know that the youth game is important to a lot of people, however I don't think people purporting to represent them should be bitching about a game being called off in public. Is it going to help their cause? No, and it may well be counter productive.
If you've got a problem take it up with the club.
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| Once again, it would appear the cubs have been treated very badly.
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| Quote: Stealth Comic "Whilst it appears that this may have been badly handled surely the most important thing in all this is Keighley Cougars RLFC.
The last thing club needs right now is for a game to be called off because a load of kids had a game and wrecked the place.
As for the Cubs, we all know that the youth game is important to a lot of people, however I don't think people purporting to represent them should be bitching about a game being called off in public. Is it going to help their cause? No, and it may well be counter productive.
If you've got a problem take it up with the club.'"
Stealth, you might think that the most important thing in all this is Keighley Cougars RLFC, I don't necessarily agree. to me, treating people with respect is more important. I find it insulting that you refer to the Under 18s as "a load of kids". Last Sunday's man-of-the-match, James Haythornthwaite, was a Cougar Cub last year. The current Club captain, is a ten year veteran of the Cubs. I think an apology is due.
I don't [ipurport[/i to represent the Cubs, I have spent the last fifteen years striving to run the Club and have done so with a great deal of success.
You think that I'm bitching? I was merely responding to questions that were raised by other people because the Cubs like to be open and honest with their fans. And yes I do think that bringing this problem out in the open is productive. It might just shame some people into action. This problem and many others in the past have been taken up with the Club and we might as well have been talking to ourselves. Sometimes it pays to "go to the press".
Rach, If you read a few posts prior to mine I was answering a direct question viz.,
Quote: Stealth Comic "
Just out of interest, why did you feel the need to say "unlike their professional counterparts who went down there and had to come back home minus the players who had been arrested". IMHO it adds nothing to your otherwise fair argument and simply makes it appear that you do have an axe to grind after all.'"
Hope that clarifies everything. This is my last comment on the matter (probably).
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| Quote: View from the full back "Stealth, you might think that the most important thing in all this is Keighley Cougars RLFC, I don't necessarily agree. to me, treating people with respect is more important. I find it insulting that you refer to the Under 18s as "a load of kids". Last Sunday's man-of-the-match, James Haythornthwaite, was a Cougar Cub last year. The current Club captain, is a ten year veteran of the Cubs. I think an apology is due.'"
Ok, I might been a little harsh calling them "a load of kids", having played at that age group myself, I take it back.
Quote: View from the full back "You think that I'm bitching? I was merely responding to questions that were raised by other people because the Cubs like to be open and honest with their fans. And yes I do think that bringing this problem out in the open is productive. It might just shame some people into action. This problem and many others in the past have been taken up with the Club and we might as well have been talking to ourselves. Sometimes it pays to "go to the press".'"
It might also say to some people: We let them use our facilities and when something goes wrong they complain about it in public? Shall we bother next time? I think you should have taken a much more concilliatory stance towards them personally and looked to work on how to improve things for the future instead of going public. Especially when you consider a new regime has taken charge of the club and appeared very willing to work with local youth teams like the Cubs.
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| Yes a so called "new regime" has taken over the club and it appears nothing has changed!!! What a shame Cougars there was a bridge to be built here with the Cubs, past events which I am aware of but dont know the details have made cubs and cougars relationship very strained, and I for one would have liked to have seen the past buried and a great fruitful partnership forged. If you have ever watched the under eighteens play, or indeed any junior team, it is very interesting and skilled rugby, organised by people who give a lot of time to the sport. I came with my family through the Cougar Cubs to come to watch Cougars many years ago and see other families doing the same now, families which we need. Think you may have alienated some more people here.
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simpsons/simp048.gif I have only been wrong once and thats because I thought I was wrong but I was wrong I was right!
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| Its a shame that situations like this arise.
I have every respect for people who give up their free time to work with young people, I've done it myself and know how much effort has to be put in. But I've always thought it was worth it.
However, and with all due respect to those who manage the cubs, the board at Cougar park have a mammoth task in front of them - not one that I envy. Maybe they should be cut some slack until they at least get their feet under the table.
I'm sure everyone agrees that youth is the future. I just hope there is a mutually beneficial solution rather than a long and damaging thread on a fans forum, where people take sides, toss in the odd insult and completely loose sight of what is sensible.
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| Quote: Dreamer "Its a shame that situations like this arise.
I have every respect for people who give up their free time to work with young people, I've done it myself and know how much effort has to be put in. But I've always thought it was worth it.
However, and with all due respect to those who manage the cubs, the board at Cougar park have a mammoth task in front of them - not one that I envy. Maybe they should be cut some slack until they at least get their feet under the table.
I'm sure everyone agrees that youth is the future. I just hope there is a mutually beneficial solution rather than a long and damaging thread on a fans forum, where people take sides, toss in the odd insult and completely loose sight of what is sensible.'"
Dreamer in a way you are right, but to give the cubs two days notice, to move a game they have to play under floodlights is wrong.
There is no other way of putting it.
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| I think a few on here have made valid points, however I think its time to move on. Its happened and done now the key is communication with the club to ensure this does not happen again unless totaly unavoidable.
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| I agree with a lot of the points written on here. Obviously Barry, Helen and the players at Cougars want the pitch to be fit for Sundays game against Workington, they've done well winning the opening two games of the train spotters cup and a bad pitch wont help, but then again it's soccer thats ruining that.
Fair enough they didn't want anyone playing on it but still, to give 2 days notice is out of order. It's been a fixture since the league started in Septemeber and everyone has had suitable notice about it. If there were any doubts over the state of the pitch after Sundays game against Whitehaven, then why not tell the cubs then that they need a back up plan in case the weather does not go their way, and why let soccer play on it on Wednesday night?
Cougars really need to sort out bridging these gaps with the local clubs especially the Cubs, the u18s are all training with the Academy and i'm sure there will be a number of Cubs right through all the age groups go on to play for Cougars in the future, the same goes for Albion and West Craven too.
Bit of better communication needed next time, now these lads have missed the biggest game on their fixture list...
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