im not sure what at one point having a black girlfriend was supposed to prove, im also not sure what I accused you of other than [ifor no good reason whatsoever putting their right and for some unknown reason necessity to use archaic language ahead of offending other people. [/i I didnt accuse you of being racist. I used 'you' in hypothetical scenarios. If you did think i was accusing you of being racist then i apologise (see, its not difficult)

Here is your problem, you are not the arbiter of what other people are offended by. You cannot decide that a phrase is or isnt racist. You can have your opinion but that isnt definitive. And yes, you are entitled to free speech, but one of the integral parts of having free speech, is remembering other are free to judge you for what you say.

I don't believe that you have to speak and act as i find appropriate. But how you speak and act will influence my opinion of you.

Once again, you can say whatever you want, but if you say something which offends someone, you can insist all you want, for ever and a day, that it isnt racist, that it isnt offensive, that the other person is wrong and you are right and that they are wrong to be offended. The fact is they are still offended and are likely to judge you on your insistence on using words and phrases they find offensive, judge you on your arguments in favour of their use and maybe that judgment will describe you as a type of person you dont wish to be described as. That is their freedom.
Whataboutery is often the last flame of failed argument.

If someone had posted a picture of a Gorilla in a suit next to a picture of a black man then there is obvious racism in there that isnt relevant to a picture of white man. It really shouldnt need to be explained why it is different.

You are of course free to argue that it is selective, or hypocritical. That it is just as offensive to see shaun wane compared to an ape as a black man. You are free to argue that anyone who doesnt agree is wrong, or oversensitive.
People on the other side of that may see your argument as ignorant and offensive. They may see it as quite offensive to see people equating a head coach at the top of a professional sport where there are 0 black head coaches being compared to a gorilla to the years and years of systematic and public indignities that image was used to put upon all black people. They may find the idea quite distasteful that a relatively rich and successful free white man in a stable western democracy is affected by that image as a black man would considering those images were, for hundreds of years, used as justification for some of the most abhorrent things mankind has ever done under Slavery.

The reason i wont apologise here, is i dont care if you think i am selective or hypocritical in my indignation. If thats what you think, thats what you think. Im comfortable with it.

If i had come across as ignorant, or bigoted on the other hand.............

Apology accepted and you do come across as a bigot. bigotry is not restricted to race or sexual orientation.

Bigotry

Noun

Intolerance towards those who hold different opinions from oneselfany circumstances shows both of the above. Do you honestly believe that insults don't affect someone because they are white, straight or successful? Seriously, that is your argument? I find your kind of selective indignation disgusting and disturbing. I'm happy for you that you're comfortable in your ignorance. However I'd prefer not to aid you in spreading it and, as such, will be leaving this discussion here.

I am perfectly tolerant of your opinion and your right to have it. I do however reserve the right to judge you on it. Your definition of bigotry and your use of it here is simply a pointless nonsensical rabbit hole where the word loses any meaning at all.

If you call me a bigot for being intolerant of what i see to be bigoted views, then you yourself are a bigot because you are being intolerant of what you want to define as bigoted views. You are hiding behind an utterly nonsensical and circular argument where anyone at any time expressing any opinion which doesnt accept the opposite as equally true is bigoted.

If you cant tell the difference between someone calling Shaun Wane an ape, and some using what is undoubtedly the loaded imagery of comparing an ape to a black man tells us you are being willfully ignorant of the history of that imagery. We know it is willful because you chose that imagery. You deliberately chose that comparison because you know that to refer to a black man as an ape is offensive. You know the history of its use as a racial insult. Thats why you chose it. If you didnt know it, you wouldnt have chosen to compare Shaun Wane being called an ape, to a black man being called an ape. You know all this yet you STILL chose to ignore that imagery and that history and the offense it causes. You want to pretend that Wane being called it is the same because you being right and you being able to say whatever comes in to your head is more important than you offending other people. And that is your right. You are free to think that way. But that will influence peoples opinion of you. It may lead them to believe you to be and describe you as things you dont want to be thought of, or described as.

To call anyone an ape is an insult. I don't believe for a second that you don't recognise that. However. coming from a man who can't see the relevance of having a black partner in a debate about racism I suppose I shouldn't be surprised should you not.

As for the definition of a bigot I was referring to your attitude that it's alright to insult people based on their socio-economic standing. May I respectfully suggest you read up on the persecution of the Jews if you're struggling to get to grips with that particular concept.

By the way, I like the way that you think definitions are only relevant when they support your own viewpoint. The definitions of ignorant and bigot are as above. You sir, are ignorant and a bigot. It isn't rendered meaningless just because you don't like it! To be fair I did laugh reading your ridiculous attempts to argue otherwise; "pointless nonsensical rabbit hole where the word loses any meaning at all" is pure comedy gold. It has plenty meaning, thank you. You just don't like the fact that it quite plainly applies to you! Well I'm sorry for that. Maybe next time you'll heed your own advice and give thought to the words you use when next throwing insults around.

Incidentally, I chose the imagery of an ape in a suit because it was posted on your own board just last week, yet you chose not to respond when it was. Again, your feeble attempts to justify why you didn't is laughable and says more about you than I ever could.

The bottom line is this. I don't agree with your viewpoint and you don't agree with mine. That's fine; it's a free society. However, if you're going to argue your point I'd appreciate it if you'd at least be consistent as it's very difficult to debate a point with someone who thinks the meaning of words is important except when it applies to themselves, that it's wrong to insult certain people but others are fair game(!) and who rises in indignation over the explanation of the origins of a phrase on the Wigan board but fails to do so when someone posts a picture of a gorilla in a suit on the Leeds one. Just remind me; who do you support again?

how long has this thread got left to run? its not even close to being on topic to anything rugby related and has become a thread for people to express there opinions on people.

True. This thread has gone round in circles and up its own aris umpteen times. Perhaps a candidate for locking.

However, in the spirit of things: when I were a brat, my mam would send me over to the cotton stall in Rochdale market for a bobbin of ngr-black cotton. No-one batted an eyelid, it was an accepted term. Today, we understand it to be one of the vilest perjoratives going (regardless of the rap-music community "reclaiming" it - which is just a bunch of bolx).

The world has turned, either get off or catch up.

I never said that it wasnt an insult to call someone an ape. What a silly straw man. I simply said that it wasnt the same. Are we supposed to pretend that all insults are the same? That there arent degrees of offense? I hope not because that would idiotic.

Whose socio-economic standing have i insulted? Since when was 'Jew' a socio-economic standing? Or are you trying to pretend that i was saying its ok to say Shaun Wane is an ape because he is a rich, successful white man in a stable western democracy when it is clear to anyone what i said was that you cannot equate calling a rich, successful white man in a stable western democracy an Ape to calling a black person an Ape when rich white men in that self same stable western democracy presented black people as the equivalent of an ape for hundreds of years to justify their abhorrent treatment of black people.

and by your own definition applies to you. And everyone else apparently.
and yet you choose to add in a comparison to a black man. A comparison NOBODY else but you made. You and only you have felt it right to bring in imagery of representing an ape in a suit to a black man, and only you are choosing to ignore the history of that imagery.

If you are going to be disingenuous, be better at it.

You can choose to define racism, bigotry or intolerance how you want, but dont pretend that is the only definition of it.

Mirriam-Webster defines a bigot as [i In no way does that describe anything i have said.

i have no problem admitting i think it is ok to insult people in certain ways, i have no problem with people calling shaun wane an ape, no problem with people calling Tomkins a ratboy, Or Ryan Bailey a kn0b, I have no problem with people calling you whatever it is they choose to call you.

I am, however smart enough to understand that there are different levels of offence and different levels of insult. Unlike you apparently, i understand that there is a difference between calling someone an F'ing Fag and calling someone a silly billy. Unlike you apparently, i understand there is a difference between calling someone a N1gger and calling some a prat. I understand there is a difference between saying Shaun Wane is a big dumb ape and the loaded imagery and history when that same insult is levelled at a black man. I do, so does the RFL. You it seems, are very proud of not understanding those differences.

I think Zak Hardaker will return from his ban faster than these two will finish their argument.

Hardaker is an arrogant nob....END OF DISCUSSION.

And stomkins isn't?
Tosser!

Sam like Zak, is arrogant like the majority of all great sport athletes. Arrogance breeds confidence.

on the field of course he is same as zak hardaker but if you met him off it you would change your mind very quickly.