Quote tigertot="tigertot"Ref's are damned if they do and damned if they don't. '"
To some, yes, but I have this theory that actually most fans don't have that much gripe with the refs. It is just the vocal minority that just make it seem as if there's more criticism than there is.
Quote tigertot="tigertot"Another week it is a barrage of criticism for ref's penalising every offence & not letting the game flow. '"
Well, we've had the "zero tolerance" debate many times, IMHO as long as both teams are seemingly doing their best to keep to the rules, then I'd rather the benefit of the doubt be given to all marginal and all questionable calls in favour of keeping the game flowing.
Quote tigertot="tigertot"If you let the game flow you have to accept borderline decsions are going to be ignored.'"
Not ignored, the ref makes a decision, that decision is to let it go. Did you mean borderline infringements? I think this can be dealt with on the fly, and should be. If players are taking a bit too long in the tackle, the ref can shout warnings while not immediately penalising. Similarly with many other offences, but in context (for example, player A only gets back 9 not the full 10, if he seemed to make an effort and isn't directly involved in the play, let it go, or if in doubt, a running warning; but if he makes a tackle from there, then penalise. (I know that good refs in good form do basically often do the above anyway).
Quote tigertot="tigertot" I agree that they need to decide which it is going to be, make an announcement to all teams & the media, stick by it for half a season then review it.'"
Agreed, though I'd prefer a decision for the season and, fine tuning apart, stick with it.