Quote Westgate6="Westgate6"Cannot see how anyone can question loyalty if they knew how Ben had been treat by both the club and especially elston, Ben will kick on from here guaranteed and just like the rest we let go then slagged off it will bite us in theass'"
In my dealings with Elston I have always found him cold, calculating and a little aggressive - things you'd want in a CEO.
Now I don't know the ins and outs of Bens case, he may well have been badly treated. So this post is not about him as such.
That said I'm getting a bit tired of all this young player loyalty stuff as it all seems a bit one way to me. Every time a player doesn't get what he wants he or a relative or friend blame the club. It's always the club isn't it, never the player. This despite the fact that as in all walks of life some are thick, greedy, deluded liars these young lads are not all sporting monks ffs. Like start struck sheep fans always seem to take the players side, no matter how crap some of them actually are both as players and people - any chance to have a go at the evil club.
Dealing with players, their parents and agents is a minefield and requires a certain toughness. Because according to some of those people especially the dad there lad is the greatest talent ever to appear at BV.
I have had dealings with two club chairman. I won't use Ted as an example for obvious reasons though I can assure you he knew how to deal with players. The other one was Richard Evans who was the Fev Chairman in the 1980's - 90's and was considered a very honourable man.
He told me once that they were looking at a lad playing open age, not a kid he was nearly 20. Fev were willing to offer him a trial, he arrived demanding amongst other things a free car! When Richard said no the lads dad took a swing at him. After being kicked out he and his cohorts went about complaining that Fev were wanting him to play for nothing etc etc whilst all he wanted was a chance. Surprise surprise a lot of fans believed him. To mend fences Fev gave him a trial and guess what, he was a total dobbin.
Put simply you just can't please every one but it is worth remembering there are always two sides to these stories and the clubs usually get it more right than wrong.