Quote JINJER="JINJER"I actually find it a little cringeworthy when grown men are bickering/arguing over kids sports'"
Stay away from jr rugby then! Besides rugby, I've been involved in jr football, athletics, gymnastics and tae kwon-do, and I've seen none of the petty, childish backbiting in any of those other sports that was the norm in rugby. And that's before you get involved in the administration of the jr game, which is shambolic to say the least.
If the RFL could make just one structural change to the game, I'd want them to perform a root and branch review of the community game; it's a mess.