and for a club official to be sat on my computer at 21.57 whilst on my holiday addressing issues suggests that i do care. The gentleman in question can contact me personally and I will assist him with the issue. I am not going to argue with the gentleman because of his disability, we have community action groups that could help him.

That's fair enough. I still maintain that little or no real efforts have been made to root out the trouble causers. It's all about opinion.

I think the club welcome opinions, but ATEOTD they have to make a call and it would certainly help us all achieve the aim of enjoying a safe environment if we abide by what they have asked for. Beyond that you are into the realms of it being a private company on private land and if we don't follow the rules then.....

There is a line - if you breach that line then you are in danger of becoming part of the problem rather than the solution!

Can't believe we're still arguing about this. Let's mve on.

I can't believe I'm quoting Tony Blair, but when you decide, you divide; I guess the skill is leaving as few people as possible feeling disgruntled and that's what appears to have happened here, since whilst some people have what they perceive to be a valid grievance, they seem to be relatively few in number.

You can't please all of the people and all that jazz.

Be a signpost or be a weathervane.
Making decisions upsets some, making no decision upsets all.