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| Quote: Wigan Peer "If i had reported my dad, he would have said "OK, if i have mistreated him, YOU take him, i'm clearly not a fit and proper parent". Discipline is not about physical violence, but it is about teaching whats right and wrong. That IS a parents responsibility. I'm sick of hearing parents who just want to blame others for their failings... Tevez lives in a world with people who feel they are above the law............. And yeah, he needs a slap.'"
So you'd honestly give your child away to a total stranger? Dont be stupid.
The problem isnt just the teachers fault or the parents fault, its a combination of both, and also the group of "friends" they choose to hang round with
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| Quote: hula89 "Respect is taught. No kid will ever learn respect if their parents all give up and say "we cant do anything about it so why try" And as for the internet at school have you ever used school internet? You can't get on anything that isnt educational. If the schools any good with its filter that is. The phones all have protections for things kids shouldnt see unless the parent was stupid enough to turn it off for them so yeah. Don't talk to someone my age about technology I know how it works excuses are stupid there is no excuse for letting your kids take part in the riots or causing distress for the general public around them. Also I work with people up to the age of nearly 60 and I guarantee I have a damn sight more respect for the authority than the older generations.'"
All im trying to say is that just because some kids are out of control its not always bad parenting because its not. Ive experienced parents with these problems first hand and in most cases ive come across theyve tried everything to discipline their children but there is only so far they can go because the law has taken parental control/discression out of it. If you think school computers filtering out websites stops kids then you are wrong, they did that at my school and its not hard to get around.
Tarring every parent with a troubled child as a bad parent is wrong and that is a pure fact.
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| Quote: Wigan Peer "If i had reported my dad, he would have said "OK, if i have mistreated him, YOU take him, i'm clearly not a fit and proper parent". Discipline is not about physical violence, but it is about teaching whats right and wrong. That IS a parents responsibility. I'm sick of hearing parents who just want to blame others for their failings... Tevez lives in a world with people who feel they are above the law............. And yeah, he needs a slap.'"
Discipline is not all about physical violence but when i was growing up you knew that there was only so far you could push your luck before you got a crack. Thats where a large problem lies, kids are not scared of being punished anymore.
Do you think these kids dont know whats right and wrong? Get real, they do bad stuff because they want to and because they arent bothered about the consequences.
I mean whats the worst that can happen? Prison? Xbox all day for free
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icons39ad_files/4821-1859san_c-msnicons.jpg Officially RLFAN's most Doe-eyed Happy Clapper.
Big Steve wrote:
The Internet has provided some wonderful creativity, opportunities and knowledge sharing but it has also given a worldwide forum for people you would leave a full pint behind in the pub to avoid having to listen to them.
aboveusonlypie...
If you don't bother to go to the game when you live in the locality then you are not really a fan and therefore your views are invalid. It's simple.:icons39ad_files/4821-1859san_c-msnicons.jpg |
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| Quote: Mr. Grumpy "So you'd honestly give your child away to a total stranger? Dont be stupid.
The problem isnt just the teachers fault or the parents fault, its a combination of both, and also the group of "friends" they choose to hang round with'"
Re read... I said thats what my father would have said.... And it meant that we toe'd the line because we knew he was boss, and what he said was law. I behaved at school because my parents taught me too... They also made sure that they KNEW who we hung around with.... And don't call me stupid..
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| Parents, peers and educators all have a large role to play in a child's upbringing. But ultimately it's the child which has the biggest say on their behavior. Everyone knows right from wrong. It's my belief that the majority of these individuals are brainless numpty's, who don't give a sh*t because of their total lack of intelligence and comprehension of their own actions. Perhaps it's a simplistic view but it's what I feel.
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51917_1302207978.jpg [quote="Rob Wire":qtnftxzx]WIGAN ARE BACK to what exactly ? Oh i see what you mean, back to beating weakened teams. How many key players did we have missing in the cup ?
Just remind us again how many key players did Saints have missing in last years grand final ?
When did you actually last beat a strong Saints or Warringtom team ? Don't include beating us last year at the HJ, we had a lead of around 14pts and were cruising then we lost both Briers and Monaghan, another example of Wigan capitalising on other teams misfortunes.[/quote:qtnftxzx]
[color=#FF0000:qtnftxzx][list:qtnftxzx]Gotta' love 'em.[/list:u:qtnftxzx][/color:qtnftxzx]
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| At what stage of the game did the incident happen?
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| Quote: the18thman "At what stage of the game did the incident happen?'"
Bout 60 mins into game i think.
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Big Steve wrote:
The Internet has provided some wonderful creativity, opportunities and knowledge sharing but it has also given a worldwide forum for people you would leave a full pint behind in the pub to avoid having to listen to them.
aboveusonlypie...
If you don't bother to go to the game when you live in the locality then you are not really a fan and therefore your views are invalid. It's simple.:icons39ad_files/4821-1859san_c-msnicons.jpg |
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| Quote: LovesToSpooge "Parents, peers and educators all have a large role to play in a child's upbringing. But ultimately it's the child which has the biggest say on their behavior. Everyone knows right from wrong. It's my belief that the majority of these individuals are brainless numpty's, who don't give a sh*t because of their total lack of intelligence and comprehension of their own actions. Perhaps it's a simplistic view but it's what I feel.'"
True LTS, but your first point of contact is with your parents... Long before peer groups and educators...
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Big Steve wrote:
The Internet has provided some wonderful creativity, opportunities and knowledge sharing but it has also given a worldwide forum for people you would leave a full pint behind in the pub to avoid having to listen to them.
aboveusonlypie...
If you don't bother to go to the game when you live in the locality then you are not really a fan and therefore your views are invalid. It's simple.:icons39ad_files/4821-1859san_c-msnicons.jpg |
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| Quote: Mr. Grumpy "My bad, and i shall call whoever i deem fit to be stupid
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| Quote: LovesToSpooge "Parents, peers and educators all have a large role to play in a child's upbringing. But ultimately it's the child which has the biggest say on their behavior. Everyone knows right from wrong. It's my belief that the majority of these individuals are brainless numpty's, who don't give a sh*t because of their total lack of intelligence and comprehension of their own actions. Perhaps it's a simplistic view but it's what I feel.'"
I agree to an extent, but say a parent had abandoned their child and they have to be brought up in foster care with other children who are in the same situation. Who are also angry people, and rightly so with what they have been brought up into. Is it the childs fault that they behave this way?
I know it is an extreme example, but it shows how their upbringing and also the people they hang around with can effect their behaviour in some ways
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51917_1302207978.jpg [quote="Rob Wire":qtnftxzx]WIGAN ARE BACK to what exactly ? Oh i see what you mean, back to beating weakened teams. How many key players did we have missing in the cup ?
Just remind us again how many key players did Saints have missing in last years grand final ?
When did you actually last beat a strong Saints or Warringtom team ? Don't include beating us last year at the HJ, we had a lead of around 14pts and were cruising then we lost both Briers and Monaghan, another example of Wigan capitalising on other teams misfortunes.[/quote:qtnftxzx]
[color=#FF0000:qtnftxzx][list:qtnftxzx]Gotta' love 'em.[/list:u:qtnftxzx][/color:qtnftxzx]
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| Quote: Wandering Warrior "Bout 60 mins into game i think.'"
Oh right, no defence then. If it had been 80+ mins, then i wouldn't blame him. Stupid how football teams sub players for these last few minutes.
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| Quote: Istilldontbelieveit "Tevez' actions, and in particular this most recent one, justify my decision to no longer take much interest in Football.
Shame too, as there was a time I paid a lot of interest as a neutral.'"
This.
Used to like footy a lot, but at the top level it's just lost it's soul. Reckon you'd have a much better time watching a lower league team these days - at least there's still an honesty there.
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| Quote: Mr. Grumpy "So you'd honestly give your child away to a total stranger? Dont be stupid.
The problem isnt just the teachers fault or the parents fault, its a combination of both, and also the group of "friends" they choose to hang round with'"
I'd love to know why teachers have any fault in a child's behavioural problems.
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| Quote: the18thman "Oh right, no defence then. If it had been 80+ mins, then i wouldn't blame him. Stupid how football teams sub players for these last few minutes.'"
Whats worse is there was a player (Dzeko) who came off just before this happened who had a right little tantrum because he had been taken off. So they had one numpty throwing his dolly out because he had been taken off then Tevez the idiot saying balls to that im not going on
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