Many many thanks for all the best wishes and thoughts.
I just need to clarify slightly - my situation is very similar as my wife was taken in to hospital, completely out of the blue, and fell straight into a coma with serious brain problems. the prognosis is not good. nobody on the medical staff expects anything but the end - but fortunately for me, i still get to see her every day
, even though each time i go, i know it could be the last. but there still a chance (remote as it may be).
but i understand the pain, the hurt, the lonely nights, the breaking down at randon intervals, and the chaos that is surrounding him and my sincere best wishes go out to him.