Quote: jools "Robbo has said that they are under pressure and suffering from nerves. That's nothing to do with effort or lack of.
Thing is if the players read supporters view that they think they aren't trying then that puts more pressure and more nerves.
A lot has been said about Giants "bottling" the big games, the current group of players aren't the same group as those that are said to have "bottled" the CC final, or "bottled" in the playoffs 5-6 years ago. The supporters are for the most part the same group of hardcore.
Perhaps the way the "supporters" behave in these circumstances is having an effect-compare with when Leeds/Bradford/Cas struggled just a thought......'"
This post is exactly why I have given up on te giants.
For 40myears it is felt like been in an emotionally abusive relationship with Huddersfield Rl.
Every week I go to watch and mostly feel deflated sad and disappointed at the end of it. But like a battered wife I go back knowing that sometimes it makes. Me feel nice and I hope it will get better.
But then before you know it you are voluntarily giving up your money , time and feelings of self respect and worth.
You get guilt tripped into going.
If the supporters get behind us we can move on. The club needs you. One last push, show your support get behind te lads be a loyal supporter.
Then you are let down again. You feel bad and sad and disappointed.
But you keep going. There is this emotional bond that keeps pulling you back. In your head you know it is bad for you but you cannot stop. Your heart rules your head.
Others tell you it is bad for you. Your kids say I don't want to go to rugby dad because you are so miserable when they lose.
But you ignore your kids. You keep going back and then end up being sad and disappointed.
Then LOYAL SUPPORTERS come on and blame you for not getting behind the club. They are like the abusive partners friends blaming you rather than the perpetrator.
This is the fault of what has gone wrong in the club inside. That is the problem the culture the management the organisation.
I have started breaking away over the last couple of years getting out of this dysfunctional and abusive relationship with the Giants.
Long before this season I was giving up.TOMORROW I AM TAKING MY KIDS TO flamingo land. 3 tickets £60 ( Giants would be £40).
I will spend 8 hours there. My kids will play laugh and enjoy themselves. I will leave at the end feeling happy and having some good memories of my kids enjoying themselves.
No more Giants for me. They can look for other better fans. People who are more loyal than me