Quote: Paul Thexton "Your assumption that I automatically forgive players of my team for misconduct, foul play and thuggery on the field says more about you than it does about me, I'm afraid. Bridge didn't get the ban he deserved, and as I've said elsewhere, I didn't see the Westwood incident so I'm not fit to comment on it, however, if the descriptions from Leeds fans on the matter are accurate, then he should have been given a ban as well.
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I made no assumption, I merely asked a question. I sense a very defensive attitude in our discussion. Why?
You've said the two boys who play for your team deserved bans but I didn't ask that. I asked if you "disliked" them.
Quote: Paul Thexton "I believe it is, yes. Notice I'm not calling Bailey a thug, the dirtiest player ever, etc, I merely dislike him.'"
yes but why do you dislike him? It's because of his actions on the field. I am trying to demonstrate that his actions are, in reality, no worse than (and in most cases much better than) most of his contemporaries.
Quote: Paul Thexton "If I am, and display prejudices freely, then every single person I know and speak to in person is a coward for not challenging me on it. When forming my opinion of someone, the colour of their skin isn't even the last thing that matters to me, it simply isn't a consideration at all. People's characters are displayed in how they behave, not in how they appear.'"
I often challenge people on their prejudices towards Bailey. I've been doing it for a while on Southstander. It's perhaps unfortunate you haven't come across anyone as enlightened as me to this point.
Quote: Paul Thexton "The issues you raised was a long and rambling, unintelligent diatribe that tried to justify your view that everybody is a racist. You are Agent Provocateur, reincarnate, and I claim my £5.'"
I do not hold the view that everybody is racist. I do hold the view that nearly all of us (myself included) are no doubt guilty, on some level, of deep rooted prejudices. These seem to manifest themselves in obvious fashion (to me anyway) in the way supporters reserve a highly disproportionate amount of bile for Ryan Bailey. That is not aimed specifically at you, by the way but generally speaking.
As for your final accusation, how insulting. I may have cadged the odd roll up from him but i do not share his personality disorder.
Quote: Paul Thexton "We shall agree to disagree then, however, if you go through life branding everybody you meet a racist because there happens to be one person they dislike who has a different skin tone to them, then fair play to you, I wish you every success in being universally seen as a judgemental troll.'"
Noted but I don't "brand" anyone. I merely observe their actions and, if appropriate, comment upon them. Branding someone could be seen as generalising, at best and prejudice at worst. Thank you for branding me a judgmental troll, btw.
Finally, you'll note I haven't judged you or any of the others. I've merely passed comment and asked people to think about why they hate/dislike Bailey to such an extent.
At least you have thought about it in a deeper fashion than most.