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23997_1287161421.jpg [quote="Mark"]Great game of rugby league. Fantastic atmosphere, Wigan were breathtaking and dominant in all areas for the first 25 minutes, coupled with us making alot of dumb mistakes,then fortunately they brought McIlorum on which helped us back into the game. I thought some of the tries we scored to get us within two we're out of this world stuff. Towards the end we had to force it a little and we had a few things go wrong, i.e Monas kick on the first for King and Solomona going off who was causing havoc. Wigan were clinical in their eventual execution of us. Proud of Wire today and gave us a little glimpse to the future. Silverwood was awful as per, but I expect no less. Tomkins is a world class player and by far the best english player in SL. Wigan are a champion side and would be a worthy winner of taking our title as challenge cup. Good luck over the next month and a bit.[/quote]:d7dc4b20b2c2dd7b76ac6eac29d5604e_23997.jpg |
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| Quote: Mintball "Oh yes – the truth is a 'disgrace'. How very dare they mention it! Bad, bad people! Their fault – not Terry Newton's for taking banned substances, oh no.
And quit with the royal "we".
FFS.
Is there really any chance that we might grow out of this sentimental bølløcks, whereby one is villified for stating a factoid? And whereby the only form of discussion has to be unmitigated praise? Let's take it to its logical extremeI know i've made some bad comments but this beats them all from admin aswell shocking mintball
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| I'm 100% with Mintball on this one.
Terry Newton was a very gifted RL player, one that sometimes played close to the line and sometimes over it! Every time he pulled on a shirt he played with 100% commitment and passion. However off the field Terry was obviously a deeply troubled man, battling with depression and obviously the end of his career was cut short by his own cheating and use of banned substances (which he fully knew were banned).
Now the whole affair is tragic from Terry's mental illness to his career ending by his own stupidity but one of the only positive things that came out from this was Terry wanting to actually talk about these issues and hopefully help other players out and help them not to make the same mistakes has he had done. Unfortunately Terry's mental state obviously got so bad that he thought he couldn't carry on no more, and as I say this is an immense tragedy.
But these aspects of Terry's life should not be swept under the carpet, mental illness needs addressing not ignoring otherwise we will not get anywhere, and the drug issue also shouldn't just be swept away and forgotten as the issue is obviously a big problem in RL.
I think some people need to grow up and realise that Terry as well as being remember for the RL talent he was, he will also be remembered for his indiscretions and for his mental illness and anyone who 'dares' to mention it is not being disrespectful they are just mentioning one part of Terry's troubled life and his ultimately tragic death.
As a side note, I'm not sure what's going on with some Wigan supporters lately but their team has won the league, got to the grand final, won all three awards at the MOS night and yet they continue to believe everyone is out to get them, and as for the OP I'm not sure how Eddie Hemmings was having a go specifically at Wigan with his (realistic) comments on Terry Newton seeing as though Terry also played for Leeds, Bradford and for a very brief time Wakefield.
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| Quote: king warrior "I know i've made some bad comments but this beats them all from admin aswell shocking mintball'"
Nah mate, you wished a broken neck on a player who tugged another players shirt, that is far far worse.
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| On the occasions when someone close to me has died, the talk at the funeral and in the immediate aftermath have involved not just eulogies about their wonderful talents and good humour, but also anecdotes about their failings or misadventures. It's the full picture which make us human. Some could argue that immediately beatifying a person after their death, when all know that he/she was far from a saint, is somehow rather more disrespectful, due to its transparent falsehood, than a fair, frank and warts 'n all recollection which is closer to the truth, and therefore rather more respectful of the person the deceased actually was.
Personally, I'd rather be remembered as a fully rounded human being, with all my flaws, than have folks bang on about what a perfect, faultless individual I was. If they did that, I'd only be able to conclude, from my vantage point in purgatory, that they were either raging hypocrites, sanctimonious simpletons, or simply didn't know me at all and only turned up for the free sandwiches.
Can we stop with the shouting now ? A tragic event has taken place, which with the best will in the world has only the most tangential real impact on the lives of those of us who never actually met Terry Newton, and there are people on here shouting at others in spittle-flecked rage that they're not all publicly tearing their shirts in some sort of pre-approved way. It seems a bit self-defeating to me. A bit like someone at a real funeral screaming at people to look sadder during the service. Let's just stop it, shall we ? Those who want to remember Newton as some sort of two-dimensional legend can go do that, and those who prefer to remember a deeply flawed and troubled man who was pretty good with a rugby ball in hand, can do that.
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23997_1287161421.jpg [quote="Mark"]Great game of rugby league. Fantastic atmosphere, Wigan were breathtaking and dominant in all areas for the first 25 minutes, coupled with us making alot of dumb mistakes,then fortunately they brought McIlorum on which helped us back into the game. I thought some of the tries we scored to get us within two we're out of this world stuff. Towards the end we had to force it a little and we had a few things go wrong, i.e Monas kick on the first for King and Solomona going off who was causing havoc. Wigan were clinical in their eventual execution of us. Proud of Wire today and gave us a little glimpse to the future. Silverwood was awful as per, but I expect no less. Tomkins is a world class player and by far the best english player in SL. Wigan are a champion side and would be a worthy winner of taking our title as challenge cup. Good luck over the next month and a bit.[/quote]:d7dc4b20b2c2dd7b76ac6eac29d5604e_23997.jpg |
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| Quote: christopher "Nah mate, you wished a broken neck on a player who tugged another players shirt, that is far far worse.'" Making a rash comment about a player or making one about a dead person get a grip
Terry was an awesome player who put his hands up that he made some bad choices he should be shown some respect for his achievements on the pitch
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| Quote: Mintball "Oh yes – the truth is a 'disgrace'. How very dare they mention it! Bad, bad people! Their fault – not Terry Newton's for taking banned substances, oh no.
And quit with the royal "we".
FFS.
Is there really any chance that we might grow out of this sentimental bølløcks, whereby one is villified for stating a factoid? And whereby the only form of discussion has to be unmitigated praise? Let's take it to its logical extreme
Watch your language. tb
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| Quote: king warrior "Making a rash comment about a player or making one about a dead person get a grip
Terry was an awesome player who put his hands up that he made some bad choices he should be shown some respect for his achievements on the pitch'"
Grow up.
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| Quote: Glasgow Gal "Well it goes to show how people take things differently because I thought that was said with a great deal of sadness in his voice. I took him to mean that it's such a shame that he will be remembered by people as a cheat and being banned from the game at the time of his death for using HGH as opposed to purely being remembered as a player of such high calibre. He was right too, all the reports of his death have been "drug cheat rugby league star Newton " or "banned RL player Terry Newton" as opposed to "Rugby League star/legend/player Terry Newton" and that is a shame.'" Well, I didn't see it, but I would imagine that if eddie said those words, it would have been to promt his fellow presenters into discussion about the many other aspects of Terry's career.
Everyone on here knows Terry won't be remebered as a drugs cheat, lets be honest he'll be remebered for being not only a good player, but also a dirty barsteward - one of the leagues pantomine villians.
For me, its a testiment to RL fans that, although on a few occasions he would have been severely cursed by opposition fans, (practically) everyone has shown the deepest sympathy following this tragic event, showing that the sport's family spirit transcends the mere game on the field.
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| When exactly did talking frankly about someone's good and bad points become 'disrespect'? Particularly when one of those bad points apparently had a direct impact on his decision to end his own life?
A lot of people on this and other threads really need to grow up and take a long hard think about what they're posting. Sentimental airbrushing does not equal respect, folks.
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| After being away for the weekend, I have now managed to catch up with the Grand Finals from Sunday and of course the piece on the tragic death of Terry Newton
The performance of Eddie Hemmings during this was interesting, he did seem to be enthused about having something to talk about and was a little insensitive at times. I didn’t feel that mentioning the drugs ban was out of place – it is of course the final legacy of his career. Hemmings did carry forward the interview too long but he was filling the time between the two finals of course
The most ridiculous thing he mentioned was the ‘timing’ of the event. As Brian Carney pointed out to him, when a man has reached such a point in his life that he feels the only course of action left to him is to take his own life (and leave two small children without a father) the timing in relation to a rugby league game is completely irrelevant. As a side note, I thought that Carney was superb – dignified while obviously in shock and grieving, his comments were insightful and thoughtful
On a final note, Hemmings stated that the former Leeds, Wigan, Bradford and Wakefield hooker sadly died – how the original poster took from this that Hemmings hates Wigan I will never know, that line of thinking is completely delusional
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| Quote: ToffeeLady "Oh climb down off your high horse will you
it's not that anybody who dies has to be worshipped etc. it's the way eddie said it, the timing etc. less than 24 hours, stuff his family will hear, it's not called worship it's called respect.
It's called empathy.'"
It's news. He's a journalist.
Quote: ToffeeLady "Pretentious post of the year.'"
The OP and thread title? A harsh description of it, but a true one.
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| Roy Haggerty has said it far better than me
Quote: Roy Haggerty "
Can we stop with the shouting now ? A tragic event has taken place, which with the best will in the world has only the most tangential real impact on the lives of those of us who never actually met Terry Newton, and there are people on here shouting at others in spittle-flecked rage that they're not all publicly tearing their shirts in some sort of pre-approved way. It seems a bit self-defeating to me. A bit like someone at a real funeral screaming at people to look sadder during the service. Let's just stop it, shall we ? .'"
If people can't restrain themselves and post appropriately, in line with the AUP, their posts will be edited or deleted.
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| Quote: Dunbar "The performance of Eddie Hemmings during this was interesting, he did seem to be enthused about having something to talk about and was a little insensitive at times. I didn’t feel that mentioning the drugs ban was out of place – it is of course the final legacy of his career. Hemmings did carry forward the interview too long but he was filling the time between the two finals of course'"
Eddie was doing what he was told to do. I don't believe for one second they didn't know the news when they began coverage at the ground, it just hadn't been announced so they couldn't speak about it. During that time the researchers and directors would have been hastily assembling a menu of items for Hemmings to work through.
In my opinion he did his best in very difficult circumstances and he will only have been approaching the topics he was told to do. Brian Carney and Barrie MacDermott clearly agreed to speak about it as well.
As for what Hemmings said, it was pretty accurate. The abiding memories I'll have of Terry Newton will be the game at Wigan in the playoffs, which was the worst game I've ever seen for disrespect of fellow professionals as he set out to seriously hurt Long and Gilly and also his drugs ban.
I hope this sad event isn't used to attack Eddie Hemmings.
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| The saying is "Truth Hurts" and yes it was bad timing 24 hrs after his death but as the saying says!!!
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| Quote: Mintball "Kindly quote what I have posted that is factually inaccurate.
Please, be free. Try facts rather than an appeal to sentimentality.'"
Go on then...
Quote: Mintball "A brilliant player – but also a thug on the pitch on occasions (what he did sometimes would have seen him jailed if he'd done it in, say, a club) '"
The bit about him being a brilliant player is subjective, the second part is speculation. I'm not offended by what you've posted, just pointing out that elements of what you've written are not as factual as you might wish.
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