Strikes me that this is the problem with the family game today. Traditionally people of all teams went to big finals. Neutrals stood or sat with all fans and enjoyed the occasion.
Increasingly we see fewer openly neutral fans and have this "hate" culture were we have to hate teams.
Sadly it's a fact through all of society perpetuated through social media.
I'd take the op up on his offer but I've already got tickets. There was absolutely no chance of my boys getting there and I've known that since 2007
but I'm taking my eldest boys so that they can enjoy a true sporting spectacle regardless of which team is there.