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| Quote TheElectricGlidingWarrior="TheElectricGlidingWarrior":2t6dlma8Really? Because what I read seemed to do just that.
He said he was saddened by how the comment was perceived, which implies the issue was with how it was perceived, not the fact that it is blatantly offensive.'" :2t6dlma8 No it doesnt, it implies he was saddened that his words were perceived as an attack on homosexuals.
Quote TheElectricGlidingWarrior:2t6dlma8He said people should think about the words they use as they can cause unintended offence. You don't call someone an effing fag unluss you intend to offend them.'" :2t6dlma8When you call someone a d1ckhead you dont actually mean they are literally the tip of a penis. When you call someone an h0le you dont literally mean they are a hole in an ar5e
Quote TheElectricGlidingWarrior:2t6dlma8He said certain words have powerful meanings other than those intended.'" :2t6dlma8 and that is pretty obvious.
Quote TheElectricGlidingWarrior:2t6dlma8He doesn't really seem like he's owning what he has done. I'm not really convinced that he isn't cynically using Monaghan to diminish the severity of it either.'" and that just seems mental, and disappointingly simply plays into the hands of those saying a big deal is being made about this because it is a mistake that needs rectifying, but because of sad rival supporters trying to score points.
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| Quote SmokeyTA="SmokeyTA"No it doesnt, it implies he was saddened that his words were perceived as an attack on homosexuals.'"
His words were perceived as homophobic, which they were. There was really no need to say he was saddened by people's perception.
Quote SmokeyTAWhen you call someone a d1ckhead you dont actually mean they are literally the tip of a penis. When you call someone an h0le you dont literally mean they are a hole in an ar5e'"
What's that got to do with the point I made though? He made a homophobic comment and his intention was to insult someone with it.
Quote SmokeyTAand that is pretty obvious. '"
But again he just looks like he's wriggling.
Quote SmokeyTAand that just seems mental, and disappointingly simply plays into the hands of those saying a big deal is being made about this because it is a mistake that needs rectifying, but because of sad rival supporters trying to score points.'"
I'm definitely not trying to score points mate. I wish Hardaker hadn't said it, he's not the sort of player I've ever had a problem with, he's generally well liked across the board and I'd prefer not to be criticising him right now.
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| Quote TheElectricGlidingWarrior="TheElectricGlidingWarrior"His words were perceived as homophobic, which they were. There was really no need to say he was saddened by people's perception.'" Why? he was saddened that people perceived his attack as one on homosexuals and were offended by it. That seems a normal thing for a person to be saddened about in this context.
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What's that got to do with the point I made though? He made a homophobic comment and his intention was to insult someone with it. '" To highlight that in moments of frustration, when we insult people, we dont always mean the literal interpretation of the word. Hardaker was wrong to use the word because it is a homophobic slur, that doesnt necessarily mean it had homophobic intent behind it. That is one of the big issues we as a society face in situations like this, that what some use as a casual insult, is a deeply offensive slur to others. Thats why this investigation is necessary, to help people learn the difference.
Quote TheElectricGlidingWarriorBut again he just looks like he's wriggling.'" i think it is bravely explicit. Quote TheElectricGlidingWarriorI'm definitely not trying to score points mate. I wish Hardaker hadn't said it, he's not the sort of player I've ever had a problem with, he's generally well liked across the board and I'd prefer not to be criticising him right now.'" then it seems a strange an unnecessary supposition with no supporting evidence that makes the situation worse.
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| Quote SmokeyTA="SmokeyTA"Why? he was saddened that people perceived his attack as one on homosexuals and were offended by it. That seems a normal thing for a person to be saddened about in this context.
To highlight that in moments of frustration, when we insult people, we dont always mean the literal interpretation of the word. Hardaker was wrong to use the word because it is a homophobic slur, that doesnt necessarily mean it had homophobic intent behind it. That is one of the big issues we as a society face in situations like this, that what some use as a casual insult, is a deeply offensive slur to others. Thats why this investigation is necessary, to help people learn the difference.
i think it is bravely explicit. then it seems a strange an unnecessary supposition with no supporting evidence that makes the situation worse.'"
There's nothing strange about it. He's a well liked and well respected player who I'd prefer not to criticise, but he's made a homophobic slur and in his apology appears not to accept that the blame lies squarely with him and only him. Had he left out the comments I highlighted I wouldn't have an issue.
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| if you read the comments in their context they dont seem to be wriggling in any way shape or form.
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| Quote BackrowSaint="BackrowSaint"The apology is completely fine for me, it addresses the possible offence that could be caused and acknowledges that he was wrong to use it.
Having said that, there's no place in our family game for that sort of language as far as I'm concerned. Although heterosexual myself, I am close to people who are homosexual and I can understand and have seen the offence that such statements can cause and the hurting that goes with it. I'd expect a ban (1-2 weeks) and I think that would be fair, there's plenty of other ways to insult somebody without resorting to homophobic slurs (whether intended to be homophobic or not).'"
Pretty much my view too.
If he does it again ban him for half a season.
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| Quote SmokeyTA="SmokeyTA"To highlight that in moments of frustration, when we insult people, we dont always mean the literal interpretation of the word. Hardaker was wrong to use the word because it is a homophobic slur, that doesnt necessarily mean it had homophobic intent behind it. '"
Here you have it.
He used a homophobic slur. When you think of all the non-homophobic words he could have used to equal effect he didn't use them. He used a homophobic one. He need not have done. There are plenty of other insults to fling at someone in the heat of the moment but he didn't choose any of them.
I think he knew exactly what he was doing.
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| Quote Wheels="Wheels"Of course it was written by the media department, I'd be very worried if it wasn't!
I don't think its an overzealous, miss-placed sense of social morality at all. He said something stupid in the public domain.
Of course he isn't homophobic, but he said a homophobic thing. He's a big daft lad.
He's apologised and is being dealt with accordingly. Everybody should now move on.'"
You locked the other interesting discussion but chip your two penneth into this one. BTW, he said something offensive, he didn't say something homophobic.
But your final sentence is spot on.
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| Quote G1="G1"You locked the other interesting discussion but chip your two penneth into this one.'"
Aye, only because folk were going round in circles (and in some cases personal and abusive) on a subject with no evidence or substance to it.
Now this statement has been released, crack on...
Bear in mind I think thats the first thread I've locked in about three years, and I didn't even ban Gotcha in the end either! 
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| Quote Wheels="Wheels"
I didn't even ban Gotcha in the end either!
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Reconsider.
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| Quote Wheels="Wheels"
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| How far can the "big daft lad" defence carry one player?
Twice in nine months he's been a "big daft lad". A less talented player would currently be shopping for a new employer IMO.
If Leeds are that committed to equality and diversity, should they be looking to take some form of pre-emptive action against Hardaker - in public - now he's effectively admitted the offence?
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