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Quote: Durham Giant "..so to call people morons is not insulting. '"

It would be, if someone did. Was there a point to your rhetorical question?
Quote: Durham Giant "..So the major blame for what happened is the bossess decision. How much does that leave then for blame with the hospital managers, the Djs , the press, the responses of her colleagues.and Mrs Saldanhas mental health.'"

1. Hospital managers - inusfficient information except we know that a) a non-trained receptioist was asked to work on a reception and b) we know the family have said they are unhappy with the hospital, and c) we know one of the notes left by Mrs Saldanha was about the hospital. Sufficient to indicate they are not in the clear.
2. DJs - Not a lot; the idea of the prank call was reasonable. They didn't think they would get through. It could have been an amusing prank, but once they got through they lost the plot. If they'd been thinking, they would have hung up. But I can understand that in the moment, they got giddy and ploughed on. The point being, all they were making at this stage was a tape. What happeed to that recording was not up to them. Also, they have already been punished far more than for what they actually did. I fell sorry for them.
3. The press just did what the press does. It was I suppose pretty appalling, but I don't expect any different. I do think, though, the station managers suspected and wanted precisely the sort of worldwide publicity that releasing the tape was always going to get, the media being what it is.
4. Mrs. Saldanha's mental health? This I think is where you and I differ the most. I don't think a person can be "blamed" for their mental health. The information released does strongly suggest, in particular the indications about the notes she left, that the factors which preyed on her mind to put her in that state were the recording, and some issue with the hospital. I have still not seen anything to suggest she was mentally ill before this incident, much less suicidal.
Quote: Durham Giant "..You are still looking to blame someone before you know the facts. '"

Rubbish. I know all of the salient facts about the call, in summary that the station managers had the choice not to go with it, but decided to. That was a terrible decision, and would be so regardless of the death.
Quote: Durham Giant "..Maybe you should wait for the police enquiry to be completed before you decide whether you are sure offences were committed. Reports from Australia indicate that Scotland yard are not following up any possible criminal enquiries. '"

Why do you always have to push it one step further? I said I was sure offences had been committed, but as (well, presumably) you know I'm neither the CPS nor the Australian prosecutors, so I do not "decide" if they have.
Quote: Durham Giant "..You seem to have this idea that your first post is the one and only post that indicates where you have given an opinion and we should ignore everything else you have said. '"

Well no, it's just that my views haven't changed since then.
Quote: Durham Giant "..You are the one who indicates your views about blame and sackings and criminal offences being committed yet ignore the fact that this puts you in the same bracket as others who were doing the same. '"

I disagree. I have given considered, and reasoned opinions. Anyone who does the same seems fair enough to me. Others such as conspiracists, knee-jerkers, reactionaries etc. are in a rather different bracket.
Quote: Durham Giant "..If you dont understand ethereal being maybe i should just call you a HELICOPTER. '"

You can call me Al, or whatever you like. I'm fairly sure I'm not actually a helicopter but it's better than some of the other stuff you call me, I suppose. Though a tad surrealist.
Quote: Durham Giant "..So YOU dont believe she tried to kill herself in those incidents . Where have you stated any evidence about this.'"

Hang on, you're the one who brought the January incidents into it, not me. I have objected that all we "know" are sketchy newspaper reports, but you have gone on and on about these incidents definitely being her "trying to kill herself". I have clearly said I think these as described do not sound to me like genuine suicide attempts, and I have explaiend why they sound more like a 'cry for help'. As you can't be bothered usually to look back for yourself, I take this view because people taking overdoses and then publicising the fact is a classic cry for help (I suggested you asked any hospital A&E); and if she jumped off something then on the basis it's not hard to find a high point to guarantee your death, doubt that was a serious attempt, given 3 days later she was walking out of hospital.
Quote: Durham Giant "..No. Someone stated that the fact she killed herself was handy for the hospital managers as it deflected attention from them and you decide that is a conspiracy theory. '"

I read it the way it was written. You understand the point very well, but are just being silly about it.
Quote: Durham Giant "..No i stated something pushed her over the edge that is very different to being on the edge. '"

Oh come on, you're making yourself look silly. You can't push somebody over the edge unless they are on said edge, now can you.
Quote: Durham Giant "..so there is no evidence.'"

Evidence of her mental health immediately before the prank call, no there is not. None. Has that penny finally dropped?
Quote: Durham Giant "..Yet you can tell everyone on here that her TWO Suicide attempts in january. in your words were (for reasons I have stated I don't believe she did intend to kill herself in those incidents). '"

How can you write such incoherent nonsense? Apart from very sketchy third or fourth hand press articles we don't even KNOW much. But your rambling sentence is nonsense for two reasons
Ah, so now she HAS (albeit "apparently"icon_wink.gif committed suicide? I wish you'd make your mind up. But seriously, the sooner you grasp that a person who was clearly very depressed last January and again in Decemebr, has NOT NECESSARILY been unwell in the intervening months, and there is no evidence to date that she was anything but welll and working and functioning normally prior to this incident.
You're the one who's saying she was "on the edge" without a shred of evidence.
Quote: Durham Giant ".. So if you mainly blame the radio station management who do you blame partially. '"

Er, we've already done that one.
Quote: Durham Giant "..You might like to add in Mrs Saldanhas mental health but i assume that is the lowest on your list. '"

For the last time, a person can't reasonably be blamed for their mental health, since, whatever it is, it's not a matter of choice.
Quote: Durham Giant "..You wrote on here, in public, and demanded i withdraw my comments. '"

Indeed. And you haven't done so. But you said I complained. I ask again, to whom?
Quote: Durham Giant "..Other posters commented that you were being hypocritical and suggested that you were a BULLY who did not like a taste of his own medicine. '"

Others would then be talking utter rubbish. But let me ask you - do you feel bullied by me? I would be 100% amazed if the answer to that was "yes", since you have recently posted that you're enjoying the sport, which is much as I see it. Given that we are "bullying" each other about as much as your average herd of bison, WTF are you bringing this up for?
Quote: Durham Giant "..So you acknowledge that you are under a psychiatrist '"

Not to date, but reading your bullcrap is bringing me closer.
Quote: Durham Giant "..No please make more posts and answer the points.'"

If there is a single point I've not answered, let me know and I'll gladly do so.
Quote: Durham Giant ".. Please educate me '"

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Quote: blamed "Ferocious Aardvark It would be, if someone did. Was there a point to your rhetorical question?'"


on page 11 you stated that anyone who said the call was a prank was a MORON.
Mintball, codead, 100%wire, christopher etc all called it a prank are you calling all of them morons but doing it in a non insulting way.



1. Hospital managers -


2. DJs -
Quote: blamed " Not a lot; the idea of the prank call was reasonable. They didn't think they would get through. It could have been an amusing prank,'"


Are you now calling yourself a MORON !!!


Quote: blamed "3. The press just did what the press does.'"

which is whip up controversy and jump on bandwagons to sell paper. All those who joined in the condemnations were part of that hysteria as the condemnations were based without anyone knowing any facts . Which brings us tto the next one.





Quote: blamed "4. Mrs. Saldanha's mental health? This I think is where you and I differ the most. I don't think a person can be "blamed" for their mental health. The information released does strongly suggest, in particular the indications about the notes she left, that the factors which preyed on her mind to put her in that state were the recording, and some issue with the hospital. I have still not seen anything to suggest she was mentally ill before this incident, much less suicidal.
Rubbish. I know all of the salient facts about the call, in summary that the station managers had the choice not to go with it, but decided to. That was a terrible decision, and would be so regardless of the death. '"


You know as much about her mental health prior to this incident as you do about what contributed to her probably deliberately taking her own life and that is what the press have told us.

we know that she made TWO suicide attempts in january, they were serious enough for her to be detained in hospital for a number of days.
The word detained is a clue. NOT voluntarily admitted, not admitted to hospital for treatment, not treated BUT detained. Detained means in the context of mental health held against their will usually due their mental state meaning they pose a risk to themselves or others or because they are in such a state of distress that they are not deemed competent at the time to be released or treated in a voluntary manner.

Now that suggests that she was pretty ill at that time. It is unlikely that someone who has being at such a position in their life will be , " cured", in 11 months.

From a Forensic point of view that would still be regarded as SIGNIFICANT in terms of her Mental Health for a significant period of time ( a lot longer than 11 months). She had been on POWERFUL ANTI DFEPRESSANTS from january to November.

Could the coming off of the anti depressants in November be a contributory factor. 4.451171875:5
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