Quote: Durham Giant "Ferocious Aardvark The coroner will decide if it was suicide ie deliberate or possibly a call for help that went wrong. Many cases look like suicide but are not determined as such until the[size coroner makes the finding[/size. '"
Indeed he will, but on the face of it a person who writes detailed suicide notes, funeral instructions etc and then hangs themselves, in a location where seemingly they are unlikely to expect any callers, did intend to die. However, whether it was a suicide, or a cry for help, the suicide notes seem to have directly pointed to the cause of her actions, so do you think it makes much difference? Had she been revived, and survived, then to me while the consequences would obviously be much less grave, the crass decision of the radio station's decision to use the material would be no less reprehensible.
What is funny about your posts, though, is that here you are, telling me that it might not be suicide, but a call for help that went wrong, and then (in big letters)
the coroner makes the finding, yet in your last diatribe you
insisted that the nurse
had tried to commit suicide twice in the last year, based on nothing more than a third hand account reported in a newspaper! So I wonder how you are so sure of that, yet on all the evidence we have here seen, you are criticising me for not waiting for the coroner to rule? Not double standards, shurely?
Quote: Durham Giant "No they may well have decided that she no longer posed a risk to herself or others'"
Had she also stopped beating her husband? What an odd phrase to choose. Do you have some evidence that she [ihad[/i posed a risk to herself or to others, then? Are you suggesting she had been sectioned? Or what? What do you know? Or is this just more in your catalogue of inventions?
For my part, I'd suggest that those treating her at the place of the reported incidents a year ago would have been the ones who decided she was well enough to be discharged. As far as her life in this country over the past year is concerned, the only reports I have seen suggest that she was being treated for depression. I haven't read a word about her "being a rsik to herself or others". What do you know?
Quote: Durham Giant "It is very unlikely she was well. '"
Why?
Quote: Durham Giant "How THICK are you are yopu really saying that she was well was absolutely fine and then two Djs made a phone call and the management of the radio station publicised it and she just killed herself. Go give your head a shake man.'"
I know she suffered from depression. I get quite depressed reading your garbage. Hundreds of millions do (even the ones who don't have to read your posts) . I have heard it said that everyone suffers from depression, the only difference is in the degree, and I personally go along with that. Anyone can get depressed, and there are different kinds of depression. In overall terms, though, I have not seen a single report to suggest that anyone thought she was ill, or unwell, or any such thing. What do you know?
The basic mistake you seem to be making is to believe that a person who commits suicide MUST previously have been mentally ill. I don't think you will find any evidence in the world to back you up so I'd give that one up. Something like 20% of the million or so who do commit suicide in any given year apparently showed no previous signs of being unwell.
Quote: Durham Giant "A person who makes TWO serious attempts at Suicide...'"
WHOOPS! Your double-standards are showing again!
In any case, on the very limited information we have, I doubt these were suicide attempts, I think they were cries for help. An overdose of pills and telling others you have done it is a pretty classic cry for help- enquire at any hospital A&E. The "jumping off a building" report seems more likely to be similar, since if you really wanted to die, it wouldn't be hard to find a structure high enough to be 100% sure of achieving your aim.
Quote: Durham Giant "and is admitted to a psychiatric unit...'"
Oh come on, the sketchy reports say she was only in hopsital, including the psychiatric ward, for 3 days total. It's hardly Hannibal Lecter.
Quote: Durham Giant "... is unlikely to just get over the problems in 11 months. '"
What problems? She'd got over her previous 45 years of "problems" to be married, with kids, in a responsible job; why are you so keen to write off such a plainly good and valuable member of the community as a lost cause?
Quote: Durham Giant "...Next you will be telling us that binge drinkers who dont drink for 11 months are cured of their addiction.'"
Yes, that would be certainly true. If they were alcoholics, OTOH, it would not be true. But binge drinking is not a disease, it's a lifestyle choice. Alcoholics are not necessarily bing drinkers, and binge drinkers certainly are not at all necessarily alcoholics. The "addiction" would be a descriptive one. You can't get a physical addiction to binge drinking. Whereas you can get a physical addiction to alcohol.
HTH. Want to try another one?
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Quote: Durham Giant "...No lets not wait for the inquest you have made your mind up '"
No, I haven't. I've given my opinions, based on the information as it has come out. TBF my opinion hasn't changed.
Quote: Durham Giant "...sack the DJs'"
I disagree
Quote: Durham Giant "...blame the producers '"
No, blame the management of the radio station that took the decision to broadcast.
Quote: Durham Giant "...I am not claiming to make an insight i have just said let's wait until we know all the facts before we start the hangings and floggings and join in with the mass hysteria of those who blamed the DJs and sent them death threats.'"
You please yourself, I will never be joining in with those people, I have always said the lion's share of the blame is with the radio station decision makers. A fact which you ignore every time you respond, for some odd reason.
Quote: Durham Giant "...Just out of curiosity did you send a death threat as well or did you just save your threats for the station management '"
Lying again, you well know I have not issued anything resembling a threat to them, nor, obviously, would I. The proper processes as to licencing and any criminal investigations will no doubt take their due course.
Quote: Durham Giant "...Now now ferocious wipe'"
I see what you did there. It is something you should have grown out of at about age 11, but as i have said, we all have our mental issues to deal with, to some extent or other.
Quote: Durham Giant "...have a i touched a nerve '"
Soon be New Year.