FORUMS FORUMS



  
FORUMS > The Sin Bin > Rotherham
188 posts in 14 pages 
<<   PREV  NEXT   >>
RankPostsTeam
International Chairman14845No
Team
Selected
JoinedServiceReputation
Dec 200123 years
OnlineLast PostLast Page
Oct 2021Jul 2021LINK
Milestone Posts
0
100
Milestone Years
0510 1520 2530
Location
Signature
TO BE FIXED



The fact that FGM apparently takes place here is a disgrace. It is yet another demonstration on the negative impact of allowing mass immigration from the third world. Our country has been dragged backwards by politicians allowing mass immigration and pursuing a policy of turning a blind eye to avoid racial tensions, etc. The law must be upheld for all - including the Arab boy racers in Knightsbridge - who appear to be immune from prosecution presumably because the government doesn't want to upset the high spending oil rich states?

It's getting to the stage where the law only applies to white British people who are non-violent! The law has been undermined by political incompetence and as a result our country is becoming corrupt.

RankPostsTeam
Player Coach4697No
Team
Selected
JoinedServiceReputation
Jan 200916 years
OnlineLast PostLast Page
Apr 2015Apr 2015LINK
Milestone Posts
0
100
Milestone Years
0510 1520 2530
Location
Signature
TO BE FIXED



Quote: Ferocious Aardvark "You're the one that said 60,000 females in the UK have suffered FGM. Unless they were all deserted by their families this means 60,000 families that practised FGM are still here. Why do you think that is? Maybe because the State has hitherto turned an almost totally blind eye?'"


I think the number is actually an estimated 66,000 females in the UK have had FGM performed on them. This is the estimate of all women who have had FGM and are now in the UK. This will include a lot of women who had FGM performed on them as children and later emigrated to the UK.

It's a estimate. Some estimates are roughly accurate and some are miles off. The truth is we really don't know how many women in the UK have FGM and we're never likely to know. And it will be difficult to determine how many UK residents are taken to Africa or the Middle East to have the procedure performed.

Quote: Ferocious Aardvark "I reject your question.'"


Because you know the answer. No one else is prosecuting parents for it, it hasn't been used as a way to combat FGM anywhere.

Quote: Ferocious Aardvark "I've no interest in investigating the hypothetical wishes of hypothetical people in other countries, nor do I "wish" for parents of females in this country to be prosecuted for it. As I've vainly explained several times but you're stuck on "transmit". IF THEY ARE FOUND TO HAVE COMMITTED OFFENCES then the law should apply to them like it applies to me. That is all. '"


You want the UK to combat FGM in ways that no other countries do. France has prosecuted people for FGM before, but they have all been practitioners, not parents.

The only way parents are going to be found to have committed offences is if social services and the police actively target this issue as a child abuse issue. But IMO for social services and the police to do that they will insist on the Home Office signing off that that is their instruction to go down this route. IMO the Home Office will never do this and nobody but one or two backbenchers would even dare suggest it.

Quote: Ferocious Aardvark "You think even if they commit an offence they should be let off because they are parents. I think that decision is neither mine nor yours to make. The authorities need to make it, and whatever it was, fine, if due process has taken place. My problem is that we have been doing practically NOTHING, seemingly on the unacceptable grounds of how undoubtedly hard it is to do something, and the equally or more unacceptable grounds that we should act, but are scared to, as we don't want to cause upset.'"


Rather than pleading to the "authorities", I'd like you to nominate which authority should be placed in charge of eradicating FGM. Then write to them making your case and see what response you get.

Quote: Ferocious Aardvark "What I "wish" for is the prevention of FGM to female residents of the UK and if FGM crime / abuse [idoes[/i take place then the UK to deal with it under due process, and not turn a blind eye.'"


IMO victims of FGM would chose for a blind eye to be turned rather than treating this as a child abuse issue.

RankPostsTeam
International Chairman28357
JoinedServiceReputation
Feb 200223 years
OnlineLast PostLast Page
May 2024Oct 2019LINK
Milestone Posts
0
100
Milestone Years
0510 1520 2530
Location
Signature
TO BE FIXED



Quote: Lord God Jose Mourinho "No one else is prosecuting parents for it, it hasn't been used as a way to combat FGM anywhere.

You want the UK to combat FGM in ways that no other countries do. France has prosecuted people for FGM before, but they have all been practitioners, not parents. '"

I frankly forgot that you know the stats for FGM related prosecutions in every country on the globe. Ooops - 0.00007 seconds on Google and already I have found rlthisrl. Oh well, maybe Tanzania doesn't count. Wait - what's this - rlprosecutions in Ethiopiarl? Maybe that doesn't really matter either, I suppose.

Quote: Lord God Jose Mourinho "The only way parents are going to be found to have committed offences is if social services and the police actively target this issue as a child abuse issue. But IMO for social services and the police to do that they will insist on the Home Office signing off that that is their instruction to go down this route. IMO the Home Office will never do this and nobody but one or two backbenchers would even dare suggest it. '"

In July a certain David Cameron - not, currently, a backbencher - said parents will be prosecuted if they fail to prevent their daughter being cut.
Quote: Lord God Jose Mourinho "At the historic Girl Summit in London this week, the prime minister, David Cameron, announced that the government would legally oblige teachers, doctors and social workers to report FGM, train professionals and criminalise parents if they failed to protect their children
With pleasure. I nominate the unit that the government is about to set upThe government is to set up a unit to tackle female genital mutilation as part of a wide-ranging package of reforms to stop the practice in the UK.

Speaking at the Girl Summit – a major international conference in London designed to highlight the issues of FGM and child marriage – the home secretary, Theresa May, said the cross-party unit would help protect thousands of girls across the country.

The unit, which could operate in a similar way to the government's forced marriage unit, has been a key demand of campaigners against FGM. "These measures will ensure that we can maintain the momentum on stamping out these harmful practices," May said.

The home secretary said the government would also strengthen laws around FGM, and would hold parents responsible if their child was a victim of the practice. May also announced a consultation into making it mandatory for professionals to report FGM and said victims going through court cases would be given lifelong anonymity
Do you accept my nominations?

I don't believe there is therefore any need for me to write to make any case, as if the government walks the walk, it is going down the lines I am arguing for.

Quote: Lord God Jose Mourinho "IMO victims of FGM would chose for a blind eye to be turned rather than treating this as a child abuse issue.'"

Many have, which is one reason why it has been so slow hard and difficult to build any momentum in relation to this vile practice, but despite shiverers like yourself who think it's too hard, there is now firm and concerted action promised in the UK and while we can't control what happens elsewhere, another few milliseconds on Google revelaed the (to me) very heartening news that in fact FGM has now been outlawed in at least 25 African countries. Some FGM victims may want a blind eye turning and I have no illusions about the situation their parents have put them in, but increasingly there is a groundswell of victims now prepared to come forward and you should be a supporter of them and encourage their cause, not an apologist for the perpetrators.

RankPostsTeam
Player Coach4697No
Team
Selected
JoinedServiceReputation
Jan 200916 years
OnlineLast PostLast Page
Apr 2015Apr 2015LINK
Milestone Posts
0
100
Milestone Years
0510 1520 2530
Location
Signature
TO BE FIXED



Quote: Dally "The fact that FGM apparently takes place here is a disgrace. It is yet another demonstration on the negative impact of allowing mass immigration from the third world. '"


On the contrary. The fact that immigration has taken place between Africa and Europe means that the first world has been informed about appalling treatment of women in the third world.

The fact that the first world countries are taking an interest in this issue means that the world will hopefully be made better for the women of Africa because these practices will be eradicated.

RankPostsTeam
Player Coach4697No
Team
Selected
JoinedServiceReputation
Jan 200916 years
OnlineLast PostLast Page
Apr 2015Apr 2015LINK
Milestone Posts
0
100
Milestone Years
0510 1520 2530
Location
Signature
TO BE FIXED



Quote: Ferocious Aardvark "I frankly forgot that you know the stats for FGM related prosecutions in every country on the globe. Ooops - 0.00007 seconds on Google and already I have found rlthisrl. Oh well, maybe Tanzania doesn't count. Wait - what's this - rlprosecutions in Ethiopiarl? Maybe that doesn't really matter either, I suppose.'"


Neither of those stories actually make any mention of parents being prosecuted.

Quote: Ferocious Aardvark "In July a certain David Cameron - not, currently, a backbencher - said parents will be prosecuted if they fail to prevent their daughter being cut.
Does he count?'"


He announced the introduction of new legislation that would prosecute parents for failing to stop FGM being performed on their daughters. I have reservations about the basic premise of that legislation. For example you've written many times that everyone should be the same under the law. So what would you think to a law which said that British parents should be prosecuted if their children suffer from sexual abuse? It suggests that they struggle to gain acceptable evidence over who is responsible for FGM so they are trying to get round that by forcing parents to remain responsible.

That's all well and good if the families are perfect and all live together in harmony, but what happens when families are fractured and children spend time living with grandparents, aunts, friends etc?

Quote: Ferocious Aardvark "With pleasure. I nominate the unit that the government is about to set up
Do you accept my nominations?'"


To be honest most of the recommendations and policies seem very good. The Govt have definitely stepped up in response to the campaigning and produced a pilot project which seems very positive.

But the fact that they are now setting up pilot projects and offering new instructions to doctors and police shows that the system wasn't equipped to deal with the problem in the past.

Quote: Ferocious Aardvark "I don't believe there is therefore any need for me to write to make any case, as if the government walks the walk, it is going down the lines I am arguing for.'"


The government would never come up with a fantastic report and pilot project which was then ignored, would it?

Quote: Ferocious Aardvark "Many have, which is one reason why it has been so slow hard and difficult to build any momentum in relation to this vile practice, but despite shiverers like yourself who think it's too hard, there is now firm and concerted action promised in the UK and while we can't control what happens elsewhere, another few milliseconds on Google revelaed the (to me) very heartening news that in fact FGM has now been outlawed in at least 25 African countries. Some FGM victims may want a blind eye turning and I have no illusions about the situation their parents have put them in, but increasingly there is a groundswell of victims now prepared to come forward and you should be a supporter of them and encourage their cause, not an apologist for the perpetrators.'"


I support the victims of FGM.

I do not believe in the vilification of the perpetrators if they are not evil but are merely acting upon how they are brought up.

I am also unsure whether the governments response to the issue is a response to the problem or a response to the publicity. Just looking at the numbers of girls born in England and Wales to mothers who have undergone FGM and that number is 60,000. Given that these girls are British African and will mostly be raised as British I'd question how many of them are actually going to be sent over to Africa to have this performed anyway. FGM is not something that is valued in GB at all and one would suggest that if they were going to be brought up under traditional African values then they wouldn't be here in the first place. Given that no actual estimates were made to how many UK girls are at risk of FGM I suspect that the number is left out because it's so small it would kill the attention it's getting. I suspect that the UK government is being pushed to solve a problem it really doesn't have because by doing that it will help eradicate it from Africa. I applaud this if it is true because it's pretty much genius and I hope it works.

RankPostsTeam
International Chairman28357
JoinedServiceReputation
Feb 200223 years
OnlineLast PostLast Page
May 2024Oct 2019LINK
Milestone Posts
0
100
Milestone Years
0510 1520 2530
Location
Signature
TO BE FIXED



Quote: Lord God Jose Mourinho "..So what would you think to a law which said that British parents should be prosecuted if their children suffer from sexual abuse? '"

It would be absurd. It is not a crime if your children suffer from anything. It is a crime if you abuse them, or are complicit in them being abused.

Also, it makes no difference whether they are British or anything else. Just that they live here, under our law.

Quote: Lord God Jose Mourinho "It suggests that they struggle to gain acceptable evidence over who is responsible for FGM so they are trying to get round that by forcing parents to remain responsible. '"

A ludicrous interpretation, to most people it will suggest no such thing. And would be futile as it is the CPS who will decide in any given case whether or not there is sufficient prospect of conviction, and whether it is in the public interest that there be a prosecution. You know, like they do for any other alleged offence.

Quote: Lord God Jose Mourinho "To be honest most of the recommendations and policies seem very good. The Govt have definitely stepped up in response to the campaigning and produced a pilot project which seems very positive. '"

I am glad you at least accept that.

Quote: Lord God Jose Mourinho "But the fact that they are now setting up pilot projects and offering new instructions to doctors and police shows that the system wasn't equipped to deal with the problem in the past. '"

It actually doesn't. There could have been - indeed always could be - improvements in ANY systems, but the lack of action in the past is down to a lack of willingness to bite the bullet, and a dismal failure for unacceptable reasons of various agencies to do their job. Many young girls have paid the price.

Quote: Lord God Jose Mourinho "The government would never come up with a fantastic report and pilot project which was then ignored, would it? '"

Sadly, governments do so all to often. It will be the task of FGM campaigners to keep the pressure on and amke sure they walk the walk.

Quote: Lord God Jose Mourinho "I support the victims of FGM. '"

In what way?

Quote: Lord God Jose Mourinho "I do not believe in the vilification of the perpetrators if they are not evil but are merely acting upon how they are brought up. '"

Another straw man. I advocate and suggest a number of things. "Vilification" isn't one oif them, vile though FGM abuse indisputably is.

Quote: Lord God Jose Mourinho "I am also unsure whether the governments response to the issue is a response to the problem or a response to the publicity. '"

I'm damn sure it is a response to the publicity. Sadly that is how things often have to get pushed to the top of agendas nowadays. Frequently politicians need to be shamed or bullied into action.

Quote: Lord God Jose Mourinho "Just looking at the numbers of girls born in England and Wales to mothers who have undergone FGM and that number is 60,000. Given that these girls are British African and will mostly be raised as British I'd question how many of them are actually going to be sent over to Africa to have this performed anyway.'"

Well, the plan is: none.

RankPostsTeam
International Star3853
JoinedServiceReputation
Dec 201014 years
OnlineLast PostLast Page
Oct 2023Sep 2023LINK
Milestone Posts
0
100
Milestone Years
0510 1520 2530
Location
Signature
TO BE FIXED



Quote: cod'ead " But if you want to check for yourself, you're welcome to pop down here and get your hair cut at Eddie, the Portuguese barber. We can then go for Portuguese coffee before an Asian meal. If you're really good, I'll introduce you to the Sri Lankan couple and their children who live round the corner from me'"


And this is the problem, in that this is the sort of fairy story, idealistic multiculturism that those left leaning folk seem to believe in....If it was really like this then I don't believe anybody wold have any problem with immigration.

Yet, in reality, its nothing like this - Multiculturism has seen large towns and cities divided into 'areas' for those of certain race or religion.... You can visit many Northern towns and not see a white face in certain areas. The idea of people living happily side by side, sharing in the advantages of each other's cultures, is a completely false one.

As I say , the thought of living in cod'ead's type of multiculturism is an idyllic and splendid idea, but, unfortunately, human doubt and human suspicion means it will never happen.

RankPostsTeam
International Chairman28357
JoinedServiceReputation
Feb 200223 years
OnlineLast PostLast Page
May 2024Oct 2019LINK
Milestone Posts
0
100
Milestone Years
0510 1520 2530
Location
Signature
TO BE FIXED



Quote: Dita's Slot Meter "...
Yet, in reality, its nothing like this - Multiculturism has seen large towns and cities divided into 'areas' for those of certain race or religion.... You can visit many Northern towns and not see a white face in certain areas. The idea of people living happily side by side, sharing in the advantages of each other's cultures, is a completely false one.
'"


The street where I live has hardly any white faces in it, though there are still some. We do indeed live very happily side by side, keep an eye when some household or other is on holiday, that sort of thing.

We don't share in the advantages of each others' cultures much, I don't think. Although the lady next door does regularly give me some of her samosas or pakoras. But I don't share in the "white faces" culture any more. People mostly do what they do, come and go, and just generally muddle on.

But you have me worried now, if the idea is completely false, what is happening here? Am I in mortal danger? Or maybe some warp in the spacetime continuum? Please say I don't have to move.

Him
RankPostsTeam
International Board Member14970No
Team
Selected
JoinedServiceReputation
Jun 200222 years
OnlineLast PostLast Page
Nov 2021Nov 2021LINK
Milestone Posts
0
100
Milestone Years
0510 1520 2530
Location
Signature
TO BE FIXED



Quote: Ferocious Aardvark "The street where I live has hardly any white faces in it, though there are still some. We do indeed live very happily side by side, keep an eye when some household or other is on holiday, that sort of thing.

We don't share in the advantages of each others' cultures much, I don't think. Although the lady next door does regularly give me some of her samosas or pakoras. But I don't share in the "white faces" culture any more. People mostly do what they do, come and go, and just generally muddle on.

But you have me worried now, if the idea is completely false, what is happening here? Am I in mortal danger? Or maybe some warp in the spacetime continuum? Please say I don't have to move.'"

Don't you get it though?
You're supposed to be hidden behind your sofa waiting for the dark-faces to go past before you can come out of your house.
They might bomb you you know.
Or take your job.
Or steal your money.

You're not supposed to be friendly with "them".

RankPostsTeam
International Chairman28357
JoinedServiceReputation
Feb 200223 years
OnlineLast PostLast Page
May 2024Oct 2019LINK
Milestone Posts
0
100
Milestone Years
0510 1520 2530
Location
Signature
TO BE FIXED



Quote: Him "Don't you get it though?
You're supposed to be hidden behind your sofa waiting for the dark-faces to go past before you can come out of your house.
They might bomb you you know.
Or take your job.
Or steal your money.

You're not supposed to be friendly with "them".'"


Don't interrupt, we're waiting an incoming from Dita's to explain why the idea of people living happily side by side is "completely false", when we are doing precisely that.

I do hope I haven't overloaded Dita's knee-jerk circuits, maybe he can't get close enough to the desk, that may be the reason for the silence.

RankPostsTeam
International Chairman18060No
Team
Selected
JoinedServiceReputation
Feb 200223 years
OnlineLast PostLast Page
Jun 2023Jun 2023LINK
Milestone Posts
0
100
Milestone Years
0510 1520 2530
Location
Signature
TO BE FIXED



Quote: Ferocious Aardvark "Don't interrupt, we're waiting an incoming from Dita's to explain why the idea of people living happily side by side is "completely false", when we are doing precisely that.

I do hope I haven't overloaded Dita's knee-jerk circuits, maybe he can't get close enough to the desk, that may be the reason for the silence.'"


Maybe you should ask why there are no ethnics placed by Bradford council on estates such as Ravenscliffe? Or why the lack of harmony in Page Hall in Sheffield? You might be the only white man in Lidget Green, hence the reason it works. Could I suggest if the split were nearer 50/50 then tensions might be more stretched.

RankPostsTeam
International Chairman28357
JoinedServiceReputation
Feb 200223 years
OnlineLast PostLast Page
May 2024Oct 2019LINK
Milestone Posts
0
100
Milestone Years
0510 1520 2530
Location
Signature
TO BE FIXED



Quote: Sal Paradise "Maybe you should ask why there are no ethnics placed by Bradford council on estates such as Ravenscliffe? '"

Well, maybe because Bradford Council transferred all its council houses to Incommunities over a decade ago?

A quick search on 192.com seems to show literally hundreds of (just for example) Khans and Hussains in BD10

Another quick search on a random postcode in Ravenscliffe shows census passport information as followsPassport(s) Held
United Kingdom 66
Republic of Ireland 2
Europe (including European Union) 73
African Countries 14
Middle East or Asia 19
North America or Caribbean 1
Central America 1
South America 0
Oceania
(Australia, New Zealand, Indonesia and nearby islands)
1
None 24'"


They must live somewhere, as NFAs don't get on the census, so my quick check on actual facts seems a more reliable general indicator of "ethnics". But maybe you can back up your claim, even though you think Bradford Council is still a landlord, so go ahead.

Quote: Sal Paradise " Or why the lack of harmony in Page Hall in Sheffield? '"

Hang on, your point is that if you can point to one place where you say there is disharmony, this proves it is impossible for people to live harmoniously anywhere, ever at all? Is that your killer point in naming Page Hall?

Quote: Sal Paradise "You might be the only white man in Lidget Green, hence the reason it works. '"

But I'm not, nor do I live there, nor have we any clue what your "the reason" might be or mean. So just irrelevant bollox from you, really.

Quote: Sal Paradise "Could I suggest if the split were nearer 50/50 then tensions might be more stretched.'"

You can suggest all you like, but you "suggesting" some hypothetical trouble-generating split is actually just more unsupported bollox, isn't it.

RankPostsTeam
Club Coach7152
JoinedServiceReputation
Jan 200520 years
OnlineLast PostLast Page
Dec 2020Jun 2020LINK
Milestone Posts
0
100
Milestone Years
0510 1520 2530
Location
Signature
TO BE FIXED



Quote: Ferocious Aardvark "The street where I live has hardly any white faces in it, though there are still some. We do indeed live very happily side by side, keep an eye when some household or other is on holiday, that sort of thing.

We don't share in the advantages of each others' cultures much, I don't think. Although the lady next door does regularly give me some of her samosas or pakoras. But I don't share in the "white faces" culture any more. People mostly do what they do, come and go, and just generally muddle on.

But you have me worried now, if the idea is completely false, what is happening here? Am I in mortal danger? Or maybe some warp in the spacetime continuum? Please say I don't have to move.'"

I live in a 'multicultural' area, and actual integration is almost nil. There are swathes of predominantly white locals, several large communities of mainly Pakistani origin and a large and growing community of Eastern Europeans. For the most part they simply do not mix to any great degree, even when living side by side.

Whether that's down to cultural differences I don't know. But the fact is the immigrant communities are extremely insular, while the local indigenous population gets on with the usual pastimes of shopping, drinking, playing sports, etc. It's a strange situation. In my gym I often hear nothing but Urdu or Polish (I assume!), similarly in my nearest supermarket I'm often in the minority as a white native English speaker. However, go to the sports clubs, or out into the bars, pubs and restaurants, or round many of the shops or events such as music festivals and you will hear nothing but English accents.

The only racial tensions to speak of are normally between youngsters, or died in the wool locals. Points of disquiet are the local drugs scene which has been almost entirely taken over by young Pakistani men who tear the streets up in high-powered cars, often distributing via the taxi firms run by predominantly Pakistani men. A Bangladeshi driver told me he was being leaned on to distribute but wanted to stay out of it. At least one baby of Pakistani origin has been found dead, dumped in someone's garden, a matter of 'honour'. I would describe the situation as 'underlying friction', although seeing as the communities don't really mix there's not actually that much bother.

I'm sure someone will tell me I'm making it all up or imagining it. You're welcome to come and see for yourself.

RankPostsTeam
Player Coach519No
Team
Selected
JoinedServiceReputation
Jan 200817 years
OnlineLast PostLast Page
Dec 2014Dec 2014LINK
Milestone Posts
0
100
Milestone Years
0510 1520 2530
Location
Signature
TO BE FIXED



I wonder if FA recalls the race riots in Bradford about 12 or so years ago?

As I recall one incident, there was a predominately white Working Mans Club being bricked by an Asian mob, prior to them attempting to set fire to it with the terrified members trapped inside.

Not that someone so grand as FA would possibly spend time in such an establishment.....

RankPostsTeam
International Chairman28357
JoinedServiceReputation
Feb 200223 years
OnlineLast PostLast Page
May 2024Oct 2019LINK
Milestone Posts
0
100
Milestone Years
0510 1520 2530
Location
Signature
TO BE FIXED



You see the idea of "integration" is to me just plain wrong. I know enough about Muslims to know that they view much of what I regard as normal activity as "un-Islamic" and a commonly held view is that time spent on socialising and entertainment may be a waste of time and frowned upon.

In the case of women, we have probably one of the biggest populations of the stricter flavours of Islam in Bradford than in many places in the world - Pakistan included - judging by the large number of females who now are seen in full black veil including face.

I am broadly speaking aware that in some sections of their religion, them even speaking to a non-family male is not permitted and as I have no way of knowing, my default position is not to engage with such women in any way unless they speak to me. I would agree that the Muslim religion does very much tend to "insular", therefore, because of restrictions on women to varying degrees, and because of restrictions on what is "islamic" behaviour for all muslims. What I don't understand is how successive governments failed to seemingly grasp that Islam IS different, and because it provides a code on all aspects of its adherents' lives, the sort of "integration" that you talk about in terms of drinking, playing games etc. was never going to happen as muslims don't see watering down their religious requirements as optional. (And yes i do know that there are very many and varied versions and interpretations of what Islam actually says, and yes I do know that as many muslims commit crimes, behave antisocially etc as those of any other religion or none). As for drugs, of course one major reason the Pakistani communities are so involved is where the drugs they sell originate from. However each area of every city and town in the land has its own drug supply infrastructures and the fact that there are many Pakistani drug dealers in a mainly pakistani area is no shock, but there are major drug dealers both locally and across the country from all sorts of ethnicities as I'm sure you know.

I am vehemently anti-religion, and hate the idea of the veil in particular, I also think that these women and girls must in many cases have been pressurised and brainwashed into conforming into their lifestyle but then haven't we all, and it is not for me to tell such a woman how to live her life, nor will anyone ever stop parents indoctrinating their children into whatever religion they choose if that is what they choose to do so it is an immutable fact of life that I have to accept.

But no, I don't spend a lot of time (well, in fact pretty much no time at all) in other neighbour's houses, we all just live our lives and rub along like probably most city dwellers everywhere. It ain't Wisteria Lane with coffee morning rotas, we nod and say hello if meeting in the street, as I said, we look out for each other and where required on occasions offer mutual help, but in the main I don't have much contact with any of them, and the same is for white neighbours as those whose skin is of any other pigmentation.

So I do't believe in this silly idea of "integration" if by that is meant everybody slowly turning into some weird meld of each other and having weekly street parties.

I am also not under any delusion that I "mix" in any real sense. Even if I go to, say, a concert where there may be thousands of people, while I may strike up a conversation or two, the huge majority won't encounter me, nor I them. Same in a pub or club, I'd naturally talk to the regulars that I know, and the people I'm with, but the groups on the next tables or stood nearby may be there all night without exchanging any words with my group. Is this or is this not "integration"?

So no, I don't think you're "making it up" or "imagining it" at all. Your account is much more representative of how people actually choose to live their lives than the rosy Utopia probably imagined by people like Camoron with quaint cottages in the Cotswolds and no idea what they are talking about. What I am saying is that despite my street being a mix of English, Poles, Romanians, Indians, Pakistanis etc. we all rub along just fine, there is no bother, and how they carry on doesn't affect the way I carry on.

188 posts in 14 pages 
<<   PREV  NEXT   >>
188 posts in 14 pages 
<<   PREV  NEXT   >>



All views expressed are those of the author and not necessarily those of the RLFANS.COM or its subsites.

Whilst every effort is made to ensure that news stories, articles and images are correct, we cannot be held responsible for errors. However, if you feel any material on this website is copyrighted or incorrect in any way please contact us using the link at the top of the page so we can remove it or negotiate copyright permission.

RLFANS.COM, the owners of this website, is not responsible for the content of its sub-sites or posts, please email the author of this sub-site or post if you feel you find an article offensive or of a choice nature that you disagree with.

Copyright 1999 - 2024 RLFANS.COM

You must be 18+ to gamble, for more information and for help with gambling issues see https://www.begambleaware.org/.



Please Support RLFANS.COM


3.169921875:10
RLFANS Recent Posts
FORUM
LAST
POST
TOPIC
POSTER
POSTS
5m
Game - Song Titles
Boss Hog
40832
13m
Ground Improvements
vastman
236
14m
Film game
Boss Hog
5864
31m
2025 Squad Numbers
Hasbag
22
46m
Realistic targets for 2025
Faithful One
150
47m
Leeds away first up
Trojan Horse
53
48m
Mike Cooper podcast
karetaker
13
58m
New signings
Huddersfield
9
Recent
Planning for next season
Septimius Se
186
Recent
Rumours thread
Dr Dreadnoug
2517
FORUM
LAST
VIEW
TOPIC
POSTER
POSTS
36s
Co-Captains for 2025
MjM
15
1m
Mike Cooper podcast
karetaker
13
1m
Game - Song Titles
Boss Hog
40832
2m
Rumours thread
Dr Dreadnoug
2517
2m
Pre Season - 2025
FC Callum
214
2m
Shirt reveal coming soon
Trojan Horse
50
3m
Planning for next season
Septimius Se
186
3m
Film game
Boss Hog
5864
4m
Leeds away first up
Trojan Horse
53
18m
2025 Kit
Marvin Goola
17
FORUM
NEW
TOPICS
TOPIC
POSTER
POSTS
TODAY
Matty Ashurst testimonial dinner
Big lads mat
1
TODAY
2025 Squad Numbers
Hasbag
22
TODAY
England Women Las Vegas train-on squad
RLFANS News
1
TODAY
Quiz night
H.G.S.A
1
TODAY
Co-Captains for 2025
MjM
15
TODAY
Cornwall has a new owner
CM Punk
2
TODAY
Callum Shaw
Wanderer
1
TODAY
Squad Numbers
phe13
4
TODAY
Rhinos squad numbers
Rixy
1
TODAY
Squad numbers
Warrior Wing
8
TODAY
Mat Crowther pre season update
Dunkirk Spir
1
TODAY
Mike Cooper podcast
karetaker
13
TODAY
Shirt reveal coming soon
Trojan Horse
50
TODAY
Opening Championship and League One Fixtures for 2025 Released
RLFANS News
1
NEWS ITEMS
VIEWS
POSTSONLINEREGISTRATIONSRECORD
19.65M 2,030 ↓-6780,15614,103
LOGIN HERE
or REGISTER for more features!.

When you register you get access to the live match scores, live match chat and you can post in the discussions on the forums.
RLFANS Match Centre
 Thu 13th Feb 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R1
20:00
Wigan
v
Leigh
 Fri 14th Feb 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R1
20:00
Hull KR
v
Castleford
20:00
Catalans
v
Hull FC
 Sat 15th Feb 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R1
15:00
Leeds
v
Wakefield
17:30
St.Helens
v
Salford
       Championship 2025-R1
18:00
Toulouse
v
Widnes
 Sun 16th Feb 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R1
15:00
Huddersfield
v
Warrington
       Championship 2025-R1
15:00
Bradford
v
LondonB
15:00
Featherstone
v
Doncaster
15:00
Oldham
v
York
15:00
Sheffield
v
Halifax
15:00
Barrow
v
Hunslet
 Thu 20th Feb 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R2
20:00
Wakefield
v
Hull KR
 Fri 21st Feb 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R2
20:00
Warrington
v
Catalans
20:00
Hull FC
v
Wigan
 Sat 22nd Feb 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R2
15:00
Salford
v
Leeds
20:00
Castleford
v
St.Helens
 Sun 23rd Feb 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R2
14:30
Leigh
v
Huddersfield
       League One 2025-R1
15:00
Cornwall
v
Workington
15:00
Dewsbury
v
Crusaders
15:00
Goole V
v
Midlands
15:00
Rochdale
v
Keighley
15:00
Swinton
v
Whitehaven
 Fri 28th Feb 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R3
20:00
Huddersfield
v
Hull FC
20:00
Hull KR
v
Salford
20:00
Leigh
v
Catalans
 Sat 1st Mar 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R3
14:30
Wakefield
v
St.Helens
21:30
Wigan
v
Warrington
 Sun 2nd Mar 2025
     National Rugby League 2024-R1
04:30
Penrith
v
Cronulla
06:30
Canberra
v
NZ Warriors
     Mens Super League XXX-R3
15:00
Leeds
v
Castleford
 Thu 6th Mar 2025
     National Rugby League 2024-R1
09:00
Sydney
v
Brisbane
     Mens Super League XXX-R4
20:00
Hull FC
v
Leigh
 Fri 7th Mar 2025
     National Rugby League 2024-R1
07:00
Wests
v
Newcastle
09:00
Dolphins
v
Souths
     Mens Super League XXX-R4
20:00
Castleford
v
Salford
20:00
St.Helens
v
Hull KR
 Sat 8th Mar 2025
     National Rugby League 2024-R1
06:30
St.George
v
Canterbury
08:35
Manly
v
NQL Cowboys
       League One 2025-R2
15:00
Goole V
v
Dewsbury
     Mens Super League XXX-R4
17:30
Catalans
v
Leeds
 Sun 9th Mar 2025
     National Rugby League 2024-R1
05:05
Melbourne
v
Parramatta
       League One 2025-R2
13:00
Rochdale
v
Cornwall
14:00
Midlands
v
Workington
15:00
Whitehaven
v
Keighley
17:00
Newcastle
v
Swinton
     Mens Super League XXX-R4
17:30
Warrington
v
Wakefield
17:30
Wigan
v
Huddersfield
 Thu 13th Mar 2025
     National Rugby League 2024-R2
09:00
Newcastle
v
Dolphins
 Fri 14th Mar 2025
     National Rugby League 2024-R2
07:00
NZ Warriors
v
Manly
09:00
Penrith
v
Sydney
 Sat 15th Mar 2025
     National Rugby League 2024-R2
04:00
St.George
v
Souths
06:30
NQL Cowboys
v
Cronulla
08:35
Canberra
v
Brisbane
 Sun 16th Mar 2025
     National Rugby League 2024-R2
05:05
Parramatta
v
Wests
07:15
Canterbury
v
Gold Coast
 Thu 20th Mar 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R5
20:00
Salford
v
Huddersfield
 Fri 21st Mar 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R5
20:00
St.Helens
v
Warrington
20:00
Wakefield
v
Hull FC
 Sat 22nd Mar 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R5
15:00
Castleford
v
Catalans
17:30
Leeds
v
Wigan
 Sun 23rd Mar 2025
       League One 2025-R3
13:00
Cornwall
v
Newcastle
     Mens Super League XXX-R5
15:00
Hull KR
v
Leigh
       League One 2025-R3
15:00
Goole V
v
Crusaders
15:00
Keighley
v
Midlands
15:00
Swinton
v
Dewsbury
15:00
Whitehaven
v
Rochdale
 Thu 27th Mar 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R6
20:00
Castleford
v
Hull FC
 Fri 28th Mar 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R6
20:00
Leigh
v
Wakefield
20:00
Warrington
v
Leeds
 Sat 29th Mar 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R6
14:30
Wigan
v
Salford
17:30
Catalans
v
St.Helens
 Sun 30th Mar 2025
       League One 2025-R4
13:00
Cornwall
v
Whitehaven
     Mens Super League XXX-R6
15:00
Huddersfield
v
Hull KR
       League One 2025-R4
15:00
Dewsbury
v
Keighley
15:00
Newcastle
v
Midlands
15:00
Swinton
v
Goole V
15:00
Workington
v
Crusaders
 Sun 6th Apr 2025
       League One 2025-R5
14:00
Midlands
v
Dewsbury
14:30
Crusaders
v
Cornwall
15:00
Keighley
v
Swinton
15:00
Rochdale
v
Workington
15:00
Whitehaven
v
Newcastle
 Thu 10th Apr 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R7
20:00
Salford
v
Leeds
 Fri 11th Apr 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R7
20:00
Hull KR
v
Wigan
20:00
St.Helens
v
Wakefield
 Sat 12th Apr 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R7
17:30
Warrington
v
Hull FC
20:00
Castleford
v
Leigh
 Sun 13th Apr 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R7
15:00
Huddersfield
v
Catalans
 Thu 17th Apr 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R8
20:00
Wakefield
v
Castleford
 Fri 18th Apr 2025
       League One 2025-R6
14:00
Midlands
v
Crusaders
15:00
Dewsbury
v
Newcastle
15:00
Rochdale
v
Swinton
15:00
Workington
v
Whitehaven
18:30
Keighley
v
Goole V
     Mens Super League XXX-R8
20:00
Hull FC
v
Hull KR
20:00
Wigan
v
St.Helens
20:00
Leeds
v
Huddersfield
 Sat 19th Apr 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R8
20:00
Leigh
v
Warrington
20:00
Catalans
v
Salford
 Thu 24th Apr 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R9
20:00
Warrington
v
St.Helens
20:00
Leeds
v
Hull KR
 Fri 25th Apr 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R9
20:00
Salford
v
Leigh
 Sat 26th Apr 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R9
15:00
Huddersfield
v
Castleford
17:30
Catalans
v
Wakefield
 Sun 27th Apr 2025
       League One 2025-R7
13:00
Cornwall
v
Keighley
14:30
Crusaders
v
Whitehaven
     Mens Super League XXX-R9
15:00
Hull FC
v
Wigan
       League One 2025-R7
15:00
Dewsbury
v
Rochdale
15:00
Newcastle
v
Goole V
15:00
Workington
v
Swinton
 Fri 2nd May 2025
       League One 2025-R8
20:00
Newcastle
v
Workington
 Sat 3rd May 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R10
15:00
Leigh
v
Catalans
       League One 2025-R8
15:00
Rochdale
v
Goole V
     Mens Super League XXX-R10
17:15
Hull KR
v
Salford
19:30
St.Helens
v
Leeds
 Sun 4th May 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R10
13:00
Huddersfield
v
Hull FC
       League One 2025-R8
13:00
Cornwall
v
Midlands
15:00
Swinton
v
Crusaders
15:00
Whitehaven
v
Dewsbury
     Mens Super League XXX-R10
15:15
Wigan
v
Warrington
17:30
Castleford
v
Wakefield
 Sun 11th May 2025
       League One 2025-R9
14:30
Crusaders
v
Newcastle
15:00
Dewsbury
v
Cornwall
15:00
Keighley
v
Workington
15:00
Rochdale
v
Midlands
15:00
Whitehaven
v
Goole V
 Thu 15th May 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R11
20:00
St.Helens
v
Catalans
 Fri 16th May 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R11
20:00
Leeds
v
Hull FC
20:00
Wigan
v
Leigh
 Sat 17th May 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R11
15:00
Hull KR
v
Huddersfield
 Sun 18th May 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R11
15:00
Wakefield
v
Warrington
17:30
Castleford
v
Salford
 Thu 22nd May 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R12
20:00
Leigh
v
Hull FC
 Fri 23rd May 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R12
20:00
Huddersfield
v
St.Helens
20:00
Warrington
v
Hull KR
 Sat 24th May 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R12
14:30
Castleford
v
Leeds
17:30
Catalans
v
Wigan
 Sun 25th May 2025
       League One 2025-R10
14:00
Midlands
v
Whitehaven
     Mens Super League XXX-R12
15:00
Wakefield
v
Salford
       League One 2025-R10
15:00
Keighley
v
Crusaders
15:00
Rochdale
v
Newcastle
15:00
Swinton
v
Cornwall
15:00
Workington
v
Goole V
 Thu 29th May 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R13
20:00
Huddersfield
v
Leigh
 Fri 30th May 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R13
20:00
Hull KR
v
St.Helens
20:00
Salford
v
Wigan
 Sat 31st May 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R13
14:30
Leeds
v
Wakefield
17:30
Catalans
v
Hull FC
 Sun 1st Jun 2025
       League One 2025-R11
13:00
Cornwall
v
Goole V
14:00
Midlands
v
Swinton
14:30
Crusaders
v
Rochdale
     Mens Super League XXX-R13
15:00
Warrington
v
Castleford
       League One 2025-R11
15:00
Newcastle
v
Keighley
15:00
Workington
v
Dewsbury
 Fri 13th Jun 2025
       League One 2025-R12
19:00
Dewsbury
v
Goole V
     Mens Super League XXX-R14
20:00
Hull FC
v
Castleford
20:00
Hull KR
v
Catalans
 Sat 14th Jun 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R14
15:00
Huddersfield
v
Wigan
17:30
Leeds
v
Warrington
 Sun 15th Jun 2025
     Mens Super League XXX-R14
14:30
Wakefield
v
Leigh
       League One 2025-R12
14:30
Crusaders
v
Midlands
     Mens Super League XXX-R14
15:00
Salford
v
St.Helens
       League One 2025-R12
15:00
Keighley
v
Rochdale
15:00
Swinton
v
Workington
15:00
Whitehaven
v
Cornwall
ALL SCORES PROVIDED BY RLFANS.COM (SETTINGS)
Matches on TV
Thu 13th Feb
SL
20:00
Wigan-Leigh
Fri 14th Feb
SL
20:00
Hull KR-Castleford
SL
20:00
Catalans-Hull FC
Sat 15th Feb
SL
15:00
Leeds-Wakefield
SL
17:30
St.Helens-Salford
Sun 16th Feb
SL
15:00
Huddersfield-Warrington
Thu 20th Feb
SL
20:00
Wakefield-Hull KR
Fri 21st Feb
SL
20:00
Warrington-Catalans
SL
20:00
Hull FC-Wigan
Sat 22nd Feb
SL
15:00
Salford-Leeds
SL
20:00
Castleford-St.Helens
Sun 23rd Feb
SL
14:30
Leigh-Huddersfield
Fri 28th Feb
SL
20:00
Huddersfield-Hull FC
SL
20:00
Hull KR-Salford
SL
20:00
Leigh-Catalans
Sat 1st Mar
SL
14:30
Wakefield-St.Helens
SL
21:30
Wigan-Warrington
Sun 2nd Mar
SL
15:00
Leeds-Castleford
Thu 6th Mar
SL
20:00
Hull FC-Leigh
Fri 7th Mar
SL
20:00
Castleford-Salford
This is an inplay table and live positions can change.
Mens Betfred Super League XXVIII ROUND : 1
 PLDFADIFFPTS
Wigan 29 768 338 430 48
Hull KR 29 731 344 387 44
Warrington 29 769 351 418 42
Leigh 29 580 442 138 33
Salford 28 556 561 -5 32
St.Helens 28 618 411 207 30
 
Catalans 27 475 427 48 30
Leeds 27 530 488 42 28
Huddersfield 27 468 658 -190 20
Castleford 27 425 735 -310 15
Hull FC 27 328 894 -566 6
LondonB 27 317 916 -599 6
This is an inplay table and live positions can change.
Betfred Championship 2024 ROUND : 1
 PLDFADIFFPTS
Wakefield 27 1032 275 757 52
Toulouse 26 765 388 377 37
Bradford 28 723 420 303 36
York 29 695 501 194 32
Widnes 27 561 502 59 29
Featherstone 27 634 525 109 28
 
Sheffield 26 626 526 100 28
Doncaster 26 498 619 -121 25
Halifax 26 509 650 -141 22
Batley 26 422 591 -169 22
Swinton 28 484 676 -192 20
Barrow 25 442 720 -278 19
Whitehaven 25 437 826 -389 18
Dewsbury 27 348 879 -531 4
Hunslet 1 6 10 -4 0
RLFANS Recent Posts
FORUM
LAST
POST
TOPIC
POSTER
POSTS
5m
Game - Song Titles
Boss Hog
40832
13m
Ground Improvements
vastman
236
14m
Film game
Boss Hog
5864
31m
2025 Squad Numbers
Hasbag
22
46m
Realistic targets for 2025
Faithful One
150
47m
Leeds away first up
Trojan Horse
53
48m
Mike Cooper podcast
karetaker
13
58m
New signings
Huddersfield
9
Recent
Planning for next season
Septimius Se
186
Recent
Rumours thread
Dr Dreadnoug
2517
FORUM
LAST
VIEW
TOPIC
POSTER
POSTS
36s
Co-Captains for 2025
MjM
15
1m
Mike Cooper podcast
karetaker
13
1m
Game - Song Titles
Boss Hog
40832
2m
Rumours thread
Dr Dreadnoug
2517
2m
Pre Season - 2025
FC Callum
214
2m
Shirt reveal coming soon
Trojan Horse
50
3m
Planning for next season
Septimius Se
186
3m
Film game
Boss Hog
5864
4m
Leeds away first up
Trojan Horse
53
18m
2025 Kit
Marvin Goola
17
FORUM
NEW
TOPICS
TOPIC
POSTER
POSTS
TODAY
Matty Ashurst testimonial dinner
Big lads mat
1
TODAY
2025 Squad Numbers
Hasbag
22
TODAY
England Women Las Vegas train-on squad
RLFANS News
1
TODAY
Quiz night
H.G.S.A
1
TODAY
Co-Captains for 2025
MjM
15
TODAY
Cornwall has a new owner
CM Punk
2
TODAY
Callum Shaw
Wanderer
1
TODAY
Squad Numbers
phe13
4
TODAY
Rhinos squad numbers
Rixy
1
TODAY
Squad numbers
Warrior Wing
8
TODAY
Mat Crowther pre season update
Dunkirk Spir
1
TODAY
Mike Cooper podcast
karetaker
13
TODAY
Shirt reveal coming soon
Trojan Horse
50
TODAY
Opening Championship and League One Fixtures for 2025 Released
RLFANS News
1
NEWS ITEMS
VIEWS


Visit the RLFANS.COM SHOP
for more merchandise!