Quote: El Barbudo "... should I also thank him for the teenager's death and for the pain and anguish her relatives will have been and probably still are suffering?'"
I don’t know what the girl’s religious beliefs were and so it is deeply unwise to speculate on how she is feeling at the moment. Her parents, on the other hand, are probably heartbroken. I only can imagine their anguish.
Quote: El Barbudo "Did he not love her then?'"
God loves everyone, which is why we are not immediately killed as soon as we transgress his law.
Quote: El Barbudo "Is he punishing her family?'"
Punishment happens after death. He may be meting out his wrath in this world, though.