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| Quote: DHM "Quote: DHM "What did you mean by this, if it wasn't a reference to potential paedophilia?'"
I don't give advice to people how to bring up their kids, and I don't listen to anyone else either. I'm not telling you what to do with your kids - let's get that straight first.
It is a reference to a number of things, I wouldn't trust my mother in law for a number of reasons, my wife's sister dropped our daughter on her head when she was 12 months old and didn't give a $h!t - would Ilet her look after our kids - not a chance. I've seen people "do" things with their kids that I wouldn't allow mine to do many people think it's perfectly okay for a 5 year old to roam the streets, if they happen to be looking after mine then what if they then think it's okay for my 5 year old to roam the streets with theirs? What if they think it'sokay to smoke dope infornt of kids? A good friend of mine has a boy the same age as my son, I won't let him go to his house because his Dad (who is actually an okay bloke I've known for years) seems to think it's okay for his son to have an Xbox live account and play online 18 games (he's 9) with various unknown adults. He also has guns that they get out in the garden. Not for me thanks.
As for very young children, they completely rely on the adults they are with, I am responsible for my kids in ways that nobody else is and nobody else ever will be.
That answer your question?'"
Not really. The people you've mentioned are obviously idiots. I wouldn't leave my child with them either. That doesn't account for why you think five-year-olds in general shouldn't have sleepovers.
My son's friends' parents bring up their children differently to how I bring up mine. They seem like caring, responsible people though, and my son is at no greater risk sleeping at their house than he is going to spend the afternoon/teatime there.
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| If it was me I would have gone round and done them both in, you can't take chances with paedos.
Its like Iraq and the WMDs thing, I know there weren't any, but just ask yourself, what if there were? You can't take chances.
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All men are created equal, some work harder in preseason.
-[i:1c45x4hd]Emmitt Smith[/i:1c45x4hd]: |
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| I would say you have to be firm, straightforward and honest with the neighbours and say if you even get a sniff of something dodgy again you'll go to the police.
My family has had neighbour trouble(I'm 17 and still at home) and we've had things thrown over our driveway weekly and a hammer put through my dad's car window, obviously we can't prove anything but it happened within a couple of days of an argument with them.
if you think these neighbours are the type to do this sort of thing then speak to your local copper/PCSO, just so they know that if anything goes on they know who to speak to, also recommend getting some cctv installed
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| I'm not sure how much use some CCTV would be to be honest, because it wouldnt be able to look onto next door's property anyway.
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| Quote: Him "I'm not sure how much use some CCTV would be to be honest, because it wouldnt be able to look onto next door's property anyway.'"
it's a deterrent more than anything to stop any damage to your own home
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